by Mulan 117 Replies latest jw friends
Yes it DID bother me, that's why I took a 2 week hiatis from ALL boards, to clear my mind.
Note that Simon is not denying that it took place (since he and Ang were in the chat room at the time), so I don't know why he can't send the chat transcript to Valis so Valis can see what he said.
It did happen, and nothing was done about it, except that I took time out to take care of myself.
nothing was done about it
How do you know? What where several moderators doing in chat at the time? TAKING CARE OF IT
You are just shoveling dirt Prisca. There is **no** good reason to rake over things that have already been finished with IMO.
What do you want me to do? Go shoot Valis? Tell him he's a naughty boy and don't do it again? Delete him? C'mon, tell me your bright idea of what I should do and WHY.
Your problem prisca is that you cannot just let things go and move on. That is why I think so many people take a dislike to you and you always end up having arguments about unimportant things.
Sorry to butt in here, Simon, but Prisca, why on earth if this was so traumatic did you not quit the board? If I had someone uttering death threats to me when I thought that it was for real I would drop the board in a second!
Why on earth would you still talk with this person? Or was it just really not that bad?
It sounds more like you want to bring this board down to me. I'm sorry if I totally have this all ass backwards, but this is the third thread that you have mentioned this death threat in. If it's so important to get it dealt with, why don't you talk to Simon and get it looked after, rather than causing all this commotion?
If someone was a credible threat to me, I would report it to the police immediately. Did you do so when this happened?
No, I think that there is some other motive here. If I'm wrong, please PM me. I am not responding anymore to this thread, in any event. This is way off topic.
Prisca: nothing was done about it
Simon: How do you know? What where several moderators doing in chat at the time? TAKING CARE OF IT
Umm, weren't they in there becos of what was happening between Aztec and Xenawarrior/Valis? That was the major thing going on in the chat room at the time - Valis was constantly making verbal assults towards me, culminating in the death threats. When I said something in regards to what he had just said - you told me to "shut up"! Yeah, nice one, telling someone that had just been threatened to not say anything in reply to the threatener (Valis).
What do you want me to do? Go shoot Valis? Tell him he's a naughty boy and don't do it again? Delete him? C'mon, tell me your bright idea of what I should do and WHY
At the time, it would have been appreciated that you responded to my 2 PMs/emails, at least acknowledging my hurt and if anything had been done, then at least let me know. For all I knew, nothing did happen. You claim the moderators were looking after it. Well how was I to know? Look in my crystal ball Simon????
Your problem prisca is that you cannot just let things go and move on.Same goes for everyone on this board then. We can't let go of some things, otherwise no one would be whinging about JW stuff all the time.
And your problem is that you refuse to acknowledge your part in not dealing with situations, which result in things snowballing, like they have now. After all, Valis is going to continue to deny he said anything simply because he can't remember making those threats. Since you didn't do anything then (that I know about anyway) then you can finish this argument by showing Valis where he made the threats and then he can apologise for what he said and then the matter will be finished.
Sorry to butt in here, Simon, but Prisca, why on earth if this was so traumatic did you not quit the board? If I had someone uttering death threats to me when I thought that it was for real I would drop the board in a second!
As I said a couple of hours ago, I did leave. But I came back to help a friend who needed a friend, and so I stayed. As for Valis, I don't care where he posts. I've ignored all his posts here and elsewhere, simply because I've seen how low he will stoop. Maybe I should have ignored his abusive PMs as well *shrugs*
Shamus, I think you are totally over-reacting, talking about wanting to bring the board down. I've tried to make my peace with Simon privately, I've told him I only want peace on all sides. Maybe you shouldn't have made a big deal about it yourself, then this whole mess wouldn't have snowballed like it did.
Prisca, I really despair of trying to deal with things with you because you seem to get far too involved in things and go out of your way to keep things going.
As far as I'm concerned, the matter is closed. It has been dealt with. If you are not happy with it then refer to the terms of use. I don't expect to see more posts on it.
Shamus, I think you are totally over-reacting, talking about wanting to bring the board down. I've tried to make my peace with Simon privately, I've told him I only want peace on all sides.
Prisca, that comment is in direct conflict with your behavior on this board since I've been here. You DO stir the flames whenever possible...and there is a BIG difference in doing this and sticking up for yourself. I have a lot of respect for people who stick up for themselves...but people who SEEK out conflict are NOT defending themselves. Can't you see the difference?
In some ways, you're like the little boy who cried wolf. Remember that story? I know for a fact, since I was here at the time, that Simon has defended you MANY times in the past...and responded to your pms and emails. But don't you think it would be EASIER for everyone all around if you just wouldn't stick your nose in it in the FIRST place???? Or, if you do choose to continue to do that, that's fine...you're a grown woman and can make your own decisions.....BUT for ONCE in your time on this board, take personal responsibility for your actions and ADMIT and realize that if you want to be outspoken, and interfere in other people's business, and jump in and say things in the heat of the moment....then guess what? YOU are making yourself the target for attack....no one else is DOING that to you...it's your own choice. So if you CHOOSE that course, then choose to accept what the consequences will be also, WITHOUT whining to Simon or the rest of the board. OK?
Geez, I've been wanting to say that for 3 years!
Tracy
Prisca,
Whatever! I CAUSED THIS? YOU are the one that posted it, not me. If you can't figure that one out, then god help you. Blaming me for stirring flames??? I just called your bluff, friend! I only asked you a question on one of your insinuations. If my questions bother you, don't bring up the topic. Take some responsiblity for your actions too.
Can we please get the hell off this topic? If you want to really talk or work things out, we have a PM system here. I am available anytime, as is everyone else on this board.
Or do YOU want to keep stirring the flames? Another post will certainly be a yes. I am not into arguing, Prisca. So if you want to talk, cool. If you want to argue, see ya later.
edited to add:
You think I shouldn't have made a big deal about this myself. Sorry for asking a question about someone on this board who is having "death threats" against her, and telling everyone in threads all over the place. I only brought up the question because YOU did. Do you think I'm stupid? It sure sounds like it.
The only person who made a big deal out of it is you, Prisca. I sure as hell don't have 3 threads going on about this. What's your excuse?
This thread has evolved into a Prisca bash.
Or do YOU want to keep stirring the flames? Another post will certainly be a yes. I am not into arguing, Prisca.
It seems you also want to keep stirring the flames otherwise you wouldn't have kept posting. Your last FIVE comments helped keep the flames a blazin'.
Actually I'm afraid to jump in here, .....I don't know what's going on at the other board.....didn't know there was *another* board, but Mulan I hope you're doing okay. I did catch the part about your mother being ill and I do hope she is doing better. I know what it's like to have a sick mama. Is she out of the hospital?
