To really love one another, which is taught by all the great spiritual leaders through the centuries, we must love ourselves first. To love ourselves, means that we need to know and understand who we are and that we accept ourselves and make changes as we need to in order to be the best we can be. It's not living for the promise of something better, or the fairy tales woven by religions; but it is living now in this beautiful life, to the full, the way we were created to do.
Hear, Hear, Sentinel.