Do Nice Guys Really Finish Last?

by sandy 58 Replies latest social relationships

  • flower
    flower

    Nosferatu,

    LOL...well maybe I didnt explain the difference (in my opinion) very well. To simplify....a guy who ALWAYs agrees with me and never tells me no or who will always give in if I push a little bit is a WIMP and WIERD. A guy who is romantic and does nice things for me to show his love isnt necessarily a wimp if he also has no problem voicing his opinion even when I disagree and isnt afraid to say no if he feels he should. For example, a guy I used to see would never say no when I wanted something..to the point where he was racking up major debt! Me being a woman of course I love to shop (ok i'm a shopoholic) but that is the reason I would prefer a guy who can say 'wait a min we cant afford this or that'.

    nice is good. wimpy is bad. bad boys are fun. a combination of all three would be cool!

  • DanTheMan
    DanTheMan

    I think it's natural and programmed in the genes for women to be attracted to more dominant, agressive males. Joey Butafuco types are never left wanting for women.

    That said, I think you can be a nice guy without being a wimpy guy. I think it's wimpiness that women hate more than anything. If you're nice without being wimpy, I think you still have a chance.

  • flower
    flower

    Well said Dan, I agree. At least someone understands what I was saying.

  • sandy
    sandy
    I think it's wimpiness that women hate more than anything. If you're nice without being wimpy, I think you still have a chance.

    Very true.

  • Badger
    Badger

    I'm a nice guy... so, ladies tell me what you DON'T see in me.

  • sandy
    sandy

    Badger, I think what I am, as well as the other ladies, are saying is: NO WHIMPS!

    Nice is ok but don't let us walk all over you and don't try to walk all over us.

  • dustyb
    dustyb

    i'm just a guy. i try to treat my g/f the best i can show her. but at the same time i stand up for what i belive in and what i think is right, and if any dumb mexican guy at the congregation looks at my g/f in a sexual manner and tells her she looks really really good that nite, i'm going to throw my fist in his face as hard as i can because he is over 2x as old as me!

  • LittleToe
    LittleToe

    Sandy:Why do you want to know?

    If I tell you I'd have to eat you

  • flower
    flower

    Yes Sandy thats it! Wimpy guys creep me out. lol

  • Valis
    Valis

    Nice guys always finish last...In my experience the womenz appreciate such things...*LOL* eheh

    Sincerely,

    District Overbeer

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