Shelia---
I have the gold stars for a couple of my relatives put away...(when the family went JW the stars went on the junk and I saved em).
I hope you never have to get a Gold Star for your boy. Being a mother of a US Marine is honor enough, without his blood being spilled on distant ground for the ideals of greed and hate.
We loose all sorts of folks in all kinds of wars... some with just one combatant. Just about every one of those conflicts is against or about some form of injustice or intolerance.
Is America always right? Probably not. Do we ask our young and not so young to give their best often, yes, and far too often it seems. The world will always have its wars and police actions... and mothers will cry over their sons and kids will look at a stranger's picture known as 'dad'.
As broad as this all seems every generation that's waged conflict is judged by those who follow in time. Historians will find some wars "just" and others just some politcal expediency. It's will aways be a shame the entire world is willing to sacrifice its best and finest.
So god speed all the Anthonys in the world , no matter what uniform they wear.
God Bless us all,
---------Hill (Jeff)