The Young Witness Exodus Continues

by metatron 69 Replies latest jw experiences

  • steve2
    steve2
    There eyes were like looking into a void. Faces just blank and placid. What a waste of lives.

    Long gone are the days when younger ones were excited and engaged about the Watchtower's message. Remember how jam-packed with excitement the young ones were in the years leading up to 1975? Young "worldly" ones literally came in off the street and wanted to study!

    I doubt very much if my JW cousins will ever leave the religion, but nor do I think they will ever - or could ever - be passionate and committed about their beliefs. There is a crippling, stifling, life-sapping apathy about their JW religiosity. The above quote by GetBustLiving describes their demeanour and countenance so well.

  • cyber-sista
    cyber-sista

    It was downright painful to sit there and watch the kids at the last congo I attended. Right before I moved there the congo had a big cleanup and 5 kids had been Dfd. There were very few young ones left. One elders son sat there either chewing madley on is fingers or just sitting there with his face red and rigid and his jaw clenched. The other son hung his head down starring at the floor and looking like his dog had just died. Another elder's daughter picked her pimples a lot and one night after the meeting her mother chewed her out right in front of me and told her she should listen closer to what was said instead of sitting there and pickiing her pimples. she turned bright red got tears in her eyes and ran outside to the car. I felt horrible and could hardly carry on conversation with the mom after that. There was one DFd son who was forced to go to the meetings because he had moved back in with his parents because he was recovering from drug addiction and they would only let him move back in with them if he promised to go to meetings and with a look of total misery you could tell he didn't want to be there. I could just look around and see that none of them were going to last in there--someday they will all be gone--either that or they will kill themselves--it was that bad...

    cybs

  • the_classicist
    the_classicist
    I could just look around and see that none of them were going to last in there--someday they will all be gone--either that or they will kill themselves--it was that bad...

    Wow. I wouldn't have guessed it was like that... as in that bad.

    Perhaps I should vow to destroy this destructive cult. It would be a life-long process and would require a lot research (plus more Greek, uggghhh). I think it would be worth it in the end though.

  • AK - Jeff
    AK - Jeff

    I am 'second generation' I guess.

    My Bro got the 'truth' later in life. He died believing.

    My Sis left many years ago - but she is just now 'healing' from the fear of dying at the big 'A' - mostly because I have shared what I now know about this cult.

    I stayed the longest - 32 years.

    There were 6 children between us siblings - only one took to the 'truth' and stayed in.

    So - 1/9 stayed in - 11%

  • AK - Jeff
    AK - Jeff

    Seven or eight years ago - i think in a last ditch effort to prove to ourselves that God was really backing this religion - my dear wife and I traveleled to a Nw US state to visit a cong in need [we thought we would move there, but didn't]. I spoke with the PO - a straight lace guy, but very pleasant, over lunch after the Sunday meeting. He told me that he was moved in by the Society to deal with the problems in that cong.

    If I remember the figures right, he said they had been involved in something like 60 judicial matters in the few months he had been there. Dozens were DF'd - mostly the young I think. Yet on the surface it seemed like a wonderful group. Like deer in the headlights!

    Just my opinion

    Jeff

  • Gill
    Gill

    To be a JW youngster is truly a terrible thing for the majority of them. There is no 'hope' for them except for constant threat of Tuesday and Thursday evenings, and studying for them, field service on Saturday, and meetings and field service on Sunday. Study, bible reading, days text, waiting for Armageddon.... and more waiting for Armageddon. You can't leave,,,,or you're dead, you can't stay because you're head's getting screwed....Don't do this, don't do that, that's bad, and that's the devil's work....you don't need a career, you don't need and education, you don't need money, do you really need to go on holiday? Should you really buy a two door car? Should your skirt be that length?

    Why are you wearing makeup? Why are you watching that film? Why aren't you pioneering? Why aren't you sitting at the front of the hall? What will the Elder's say?

    What a bloody nightmare! No wonder these kids have mental health issues!

    The Watchtower needs bringing down. The sooner the better.

    My cousins who are still JWs are all ill with strange diseases. I say stress brought on their illnesses as they're all immune system related. They strive to be perfect in the trooth. I can't be angry with them just really sad.

    Since leaving the JWs lingering chronic health problems have literally disappeared and I believe it's because the stress I have felt my whole life has disappeared. After a 'mental crisis' my whole life was rebuilt not far off how it should have been had I not been a JW. But I'm afraid my family, except for parents and sister, shun me and I would dearly love to help them escape the JW cult.

  • Holey_Cheeses*King_of_the juice.
    Holey_Cheeses*King_of_the juice.

    Aahhh, a topic that gives me joy in a particularly 'wicked' way.

    There are no witnesses on my side of the family. My wife's mother and father had six children, only my wife and her sister were ever baptised. Both no longer in the 'truth'. The other four children have nothing to do with it. My wife's siblings presently have twelve (including our two) children (grandchildren to my wife's parents). Not an ounce of interest between the lot of them. There are also three great grand children who are too young at the moment.

    One reason I derive great joy from this information is because my wife's father is an elder and a diehard jw - raised in the org, knows no other life. Devoted all of his life to the 'truth' and, oh shit, none of the family have taken to it. Oh boy, do I love that!

    The other reason I find it enjoyable is the fact that all of his family live in fairly close proximity, and yet he will never have the satisfaction of seeing them all assembled at the one time, as the majority cannot stand a bar of him. But that is another story.

    cheeses. oh you gotta love the way the family is honoured by the jws.

  • mkr32208
    mkr32208

    Stats for my friends and family

    my fam- mom still strong dad still in but not really active
    my bros- 2 out, 1 in strong (elder) 1 out but undecided

    friends

    Bn fam- both parents inactive 1 child out

    brsb fam- 1 parent in 1 in out in out in out kids 3 out 1 out but undecided

    smly- 1 parent out one dead kids 1 out

    Buzk- 2 parents in 3 kids in! (well they are polish!)

    muhead- 1 parent in one dead kids 2 out 2 in

    vheis1- 1 parent in one dead (out before death) 2 out 1 in 1 in but undecided

    vheis2- 2 parents in kids 1 in 1 out

    jerh- parents 1 in 1 out 1 step in kids 5 out none in

    nailor- 2 parents out 13 kids out 2 in!... 90% crazy factor

    wkmn- 2 parents out 6 out 1 in... crazy factor 30%

    new people in hall from preaching 3 in last 15 years

    I really see this as the last or next to last generation
    I think 2014 is gonna hit them HARD

  • steve2
    steve2

    The other "side" of the exodus is an absence: Few, if any, newly interested people coming in to the organization and becoming active JWs. This development is "strange" because the JWs, at least until a few years ago in Western countries, comprised a religion whose growth was predominantly obtained from "new blood". But as it has aged, and the JWs become more "fruitful" with progeny, the sight of new ones embracing the Watchtower's dated message has declined.

    Coupled with the exodus of youth, there is a real change going on. My impression is that, while some of the higher ups in the organization may well be concerned, it's business as usual for the boys in Brooklyn. None so blind...

  • G Money
    G Money

    It will keep happening but the best way to keep them out is job training. I know so many young ones who go out but come back because they were raised without goals nor education and the parents use that "carrot on the string" to keep them coming back. I ask many if they are going back because of family's financial support and they all say yes. Allow them to skills to be self supportive and nobody would ever come back!

    I think mnay witnesses are naive to the ways of the world and get caught up in bad stuff. Many come from poorer families and when out hang out with poorer classes of people where aberrant behaviour may not be frowned oupon as much as with the higher classes.

    Only in the truth is a girl a pioneer one year and a few years later has red headed kids from different daddies. It sucks. Alot go off the deep end.

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