I can't take it any longer...........................goodbye

by AloneinOh 103 Replies latest jw friends

  • anglise
    anglise

    Hope all is ok for Aloneinoh.

    LT Yes that was selfish of that individual BUT I doubt he was in a very altruistic frame of mind at the time. I would also think that the very public location that he chose meant his act was meant to be cry for attention or help and not to be so terribly final.

    I am sorry for the poor child who found him and of course for the family and friends who are now questioning themselves as to how they too have failed and died a little that day.

    We are very complicated beings.

    Anglise

  • kls
    kls

    If you do what it sounds like you want to do ,you are a coward and heartless and you taking the easy way out while others that love you suffer. For those of us that have had loved ones exit this world by their own hand ,you have no idea what hurt you will leave behind. If you don't care about yourself please think of others and not leave in a way that others have to live with the burden that you have chose for them.

    If this is the way of getting back at those that have hurt you ,i promise you will have gotten them back more then you will ever know.

  • bikerchic
    bikerchic

    (((((AloneinOh)))), please talk to us, we're listening and very concerned.

    Kate

  • missy04
    missy04

    bttt...

  • missy04
    missy04

    This is really worrying me..

    Is there anything that can be done? Can Simon or someone else find their location through the IP address and call someone for them? I'm very worried.

    ~Sarah

  • jwbot
    jwbot

    *sigh*
    I hope he is OK

    I truly understand...I have been there, several times. In fact, one time I posted here. I could not sleep at night and I was suicidal. I posted here asking for help, and the outpouring I got made me cry and it made me realize that there are wonderful people out there and if you are gone, you can not enjoy them. Humans are survivors, so how come some of us just do not feel the need to survive? That has always bugged me.

    No matter how bad it gets-there is always a way out...there is always a reason to hang on.

  • FMZ
    FMZ

    Ross, you couldn't just hold that one in? I think this thread could have done without it, if it is a joke then fine, but if not, you are gonna look like quite a jerk if we find out something did happen. I don't think it is worth the gamble of throwing your two penneth in just for the sake of it. Just IMHO.

    AloneInOh, hope you come back to let us know you are OK.

    FMZ

  • kls
    kls

    FMZ said,,,, if it is a joke then fine, no it is not fine, as i have stated ,many of us that have lost loved ones in this way and reading this just brings up the hurt.

    Aloneinoh,,,,,,,,,,please you have so many worried and hurting here ,PLEASE ,if you are alright ,let us know.

  • missy04
    missy04

    Alone, I REALLY hope you are ok. It seems alot of us have gone through similar feelings, me included. But I have always been happy later that I stuck around (or sometimes it took a while) because things do get better and theres always something or someone good that you will miss out on if you don't stick around.

    Many hugs to you and if you read this, please check your messages here on the forum.

    ~Sarah

  • LittleToe
    LittleToe

    Keith:Ya want to make this personal (and incidentally, why did you single me out for attention?)?
    Have you ever lost someone close to suicide?
    I have, and to be frank the pain has been brought back acutely, recently and today.
    I also have friends who have lost parents and sibling and children, and what wouldn't they give to bring them back!
    I've sat with them and grieved with them, and then gone home and grieved some more.
    So feel free to get off the high moral ground and STFU.

    Given the information we have to go on, I seriously doubt if my post will have tipped someone over the edge, so I don't think it alters my "jerk"iness, one iota - and yes, I did think and consider that before I posted.

    Nearly 1000 views and 11hours later, and personally I'm continuing to grow in concern and frustration.

    If you're reading any of this OiOH, PLEASE, for gawds sake check in, regardless of how it is!

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