interesting, just today i was thinking about this
i have many clients who have known from childhood about how exactly their wedding would be, their husband, their careers
i never once thought of those things,,,,never thought about my wedding, etc
although i wanted to go into law, and tried 3 times to start university, first time i enrolled, got preg with 2nd child and would have been too hard a task at the time (no off campus learning then)
2nd time i tried, i became a jw,,YUK
3rd time, a few years ago, i ended up leaving my x of 25 yrs, and getting df'd,,,,then the spiral began
now i am a small business owner, go figuire,,,,,,but, being the boss, i get to have my police scanner on at work so i can keep on top of a few things :):)
orbi