Posts by goingthruthemotions

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Poll: When my PIMI wife comes back from meeting. she is a different person. how many out there experience the same and why?

by goingthruthemotions in

so i am trying to understand if i am the only pomo that experiences the situation where the pimi spouse comes back from a meeting a different personanlity.

it may not be obivious to the untrained eye, but i notice it and i know my sons notice it.

this last round after all the loyalty bs and armagedon bs it's like she has stayed stuck in it.

goingthruthemotions

So I am trying to understand if i am the only POMO that experiences the situation where the PIMI spouse comes back from a meeting a different personanlity. it may not be obivious to the untrained eye, but i notice it and i know my sons notice it.

this last round after all the loyalty BS and Armagedon BS it's like she has stayed stuck in it. My problem is, i will call her out on it and tell her she is coming back from the meeting as a diffent person.

sometimes it could last a couple of hours or it could last weeks. i guess it depends on what kind of BS they are filling her mind with.

My question is, how is the mental illnes catagorized? is it Dissociative personality disorder ?

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2019 service report is out

by slimboyfat in

the 2019 report is out:.

https://download-a.akamaihd.net/files/media_publication/29/syr19_e.pdf.

the “average publisher” figure for individual countries has made a comeback!

goingthruthemotions

I agree with JimmyYoung, The Borg lies, they know its bad, its obvious. they making it look like its not that bad.

remember, its a cult.

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"Do You think that 8 million are being deceived?" Ways to answer this?

by BottleGate_ in

mine is : jws preach that the entire population of the earth has been deceived ..

goingthruthemotions

i don't believe that everyone that attends is fully in. alot of PIMO's. Secondly they say they have 8.5 million members, i think this is exagerated.

But there are ones like my wife who are fully brainwashed, and these are the dangerous ones. When my wifes comes from every meeting...she is a different person. it's kinda disturbing.

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'Jehovah's Witnesses' Label Added to Trolley

by cofty in

yesterday i noticed on four trolleys i passed (and had a long useful conversation at one but more on that later) they had added a label identifying themselves as jehovah's witnesses.

it was just a simple printed piece of white card stuck on next the logo.. is this a new requirement?

was it a directive from hq or i wonder if the local council require it..

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They have to remind themselves which cult they belong to. it has moved so much to the JW..ORG they don't know who they belong to .

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venting: My wife is the most dangerous kind of JW

by goingthruthemotions in

i need to vent again here.

because i have no one else to talk with and no one who really understands except for the people here.

my wife is the most dangerous kind of jw.

goingthruthemotions

Sir82, this is my wife. she believes everything is from there god to the gb monkies. it is hopeless. at this point in time i have pretty much stopped talking to her.

just coexisting in the same house. it is a moot point. when ever she goes to the meeting or service. she comes back a different person. very strange and scary....a glazed over look in her eyes. she has gotten worse now that her halls mergered. like she needs to prove a point.

just a little back history. we have been together for 30 years and married 28 yrs. she was born into the cult, but when i met her she was not involved. we celebrated everything unilt 2008 when i got the bright idea that we need god in our live. she said she will not go anyplace but the jw's. i thought....how bad could they be. man was i wrong. anyways, i got involved and became a MS around 2011 and woke up in 2013 after the infamous artilce about following them no matter what. right then i knew i needed to get out with my family. she dug in her heels. i stopped going in during 2014 and have never gone back.

she knows how i feel about the cult, our boys have no interest in the cult.

as i stated my wife will never wake up, it will take a miriacle and right now i have a hard time believing in god. so its hopeless.

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JW views on saving and retirement

by neat blue dog in

probably one of the most common causes of cognitive dissonance many jws face is the choice to plan for retirement.

if you're a good jw, then you should believe that the end will be coming soon, surely before you retire.

that's what i did when i was younger, blowing decades that could've been better spent because i believed the end was coming, so any planning was a waste of time.

goingthruthemotions

Even my totally brainwashed wife agrees with saving for a retirement and making sure our son's get a college education!!

I had an experience not too long ago that was kinda funny and sad at the same time. we were at a funeral, and a witness man I know introduced me to his son, whom is 19. I said nice to meet you and the next big question.....so where do you go to school now that you graduated ( not sure if he actually graduated or got his GED) the kid said he just works and before he could say anything else. some super brainwashed dude says....he doesn't need to go to school. he took duel credit in high school. i was like WTF does that mean? that doesn't mean he has a degree i thought to myself. but i just looked at this idiot and walked away.

and thought to myself...my 20 yr old is a Junior in college. HORAY

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FlyingHighNow

by Ex-Witless in

jw
friends

hello forum.

my aunt, flyinghighnow, has passed away.

i don't know if you remember her, but she was a long time member.

goingthruthemotions

So sorry for the loss, life is so precious

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venting: My wife is the most dangerous kind of JW

by goingthruthemotions in

i need to vent again here.

because i have no one else to talk with and no one who really understands except for the people here.

my wife is the most dangerous kind of jw.

goingthruthemotions

I need to vent again here. Because i have no one else to talk with and no one who really understands except for the people here.

My wife is the most dangerous kind of JW. she believes everything they teach and i mean everything without question and will follow what they teach without question. even to the point of taking a pill if instructed.

of course she has the right to believe what she wants.....i tell her to all i ever ask is for her to think critically about what she is being taught. she says she does...but you and i know if she did. i would not be posting on this sub.

this moring during a conversation she made a comment about death...easy come easy go. I believe she has no value for life and I believe she is a heartless person and she only has any kind of care for people in her cult.

i hate this cult with every once of being. thank god my kids want nothing to do with it..

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Need to vent. I am thinking of leaving my wife.

by goingthruthemotions in

i am so sick of this cult, this religion has such a grip on her.

since i left in 2014, things just are getting progressively worse.

and she it's just getting deeper and deeper.

goingthruthemotions

Thanks everyone for the kind words. It gets tougher to deal with sometimes more than others. I just hate seeing how brainwashed she is when it comes to this cult.

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Need to vent. I am thinking of leaving my wife.

by goingthruthemotions in

i am so sick of this cult, this religion has such a grip on her.

since i left in 2014, things just are getting progressively worse.

and she it's just getting deeper and deeper.

goingthruthemotions

I am so sick of this cult, this religion has such a grip on her. Since I left in 2014, things just are getting progressively worse. And she it's just getting deeper and deeper. Her hall merged with another hall, and just is more and more brainwashed. In reality I don't think she cares if our marriage falls apart.

I am thinking of meeting with a lawyer and find out my rights.

I hate the person she has become with this cult...I could go on and on. Maybe one of you all could talk with me. I just need to vent.