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  I received a package from my mother today

  by ex-nj-jw in

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  my dub mother sent me a package today, inside was a nwt bible, a picture of me around age 5 at an assembly - i looked miserable and my dad was holding a battery operated fan in front of me, and a letter, here is the letter.

  i ask that you remember that i was 18 when i left and i'm now 42, that there is a total of 8 children in my family and there are only 2 that are still jw's, oh and that my mother is a complete nutcase!

  dear nj:.

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  Sassy

  well I am so glad she lost the ability to hurt you.. I hated some of the things she said to you
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  Life Goes too Fast

  by Undecided in

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  i'm getting depressed lately realizing my life is fast comming to an end.

  so many of my acquaintances in this life are dying and it won't be long before i will be gone.

  there is nothing we can do to stop it.

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  Sassy

  awweee.. I don't know what to say.. but here is a ((((HUG))))
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  Is Fading Worth it?

  by undercover in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  from time to time members of jwd will post an experience of receiving a letter or an email from a still believing family member or friend encouraging them to "return to jehovah" or the "organization".

  sometimes an intense amount of guilt is applied to the letter receiver.

  guilt for having left jehovah or for turning their back on their family/friends.

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  Sassy

  it definately depends on your situation.. I had hoped if I faded to still have contact with my mother.. She treats me like I am disfellowshipped.. so I dont' think I managed to get anywhere..

  I don't DA myself, because what purpose would it serve, except perhaps to help them clean up their records... I don't live by their rules any longer, therefore why would I bother to inform them how I felt about anything..

  I've just moved on
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  I JUST FOUND OUT.......!!!!!!

  by Es in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  that im having another baby!!!!!.

  just done the test and the line came up straight away....... we were planning on falling pregnant in about three months and happend to fall pregnant straight away...im still in shock but had to share it with you all my family.

  luv ya.

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  Sassy

  CONGRATS!!
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  I received a package from my mother today

  by ex-nj-jw in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  my dub mother sent me a package today, inside was a nwt bible, a picture of me around age 5 at an assembly - i looked miserable and my dad was holding a battery operated fan in front of me, and a letter, here is the letter.

  i ask that you remember that i was 18 when i left and i'm now 42, that there is a total of 8 children in my family and there are only 2 that are still jw's, oh and that my mother is a complete nutcase!

  dear nj:.

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  Sassy

  oh god.. that is a horrible letter. not only is she brainwashed but she is treated you horribly.. Even if the dubs had it right, that sure would not entice me to return... the comment

  How is it possible that I could have given birth to something so awefull?

  what kind of loving thing is that to say?

  ((((HUG))))
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  Not allowed to sleep over - is that weird?

  by collegegirl21 in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  okay, so my guy and i have been together for 10 months and we usually are ok together.

  but there is something that has been getting to me and i think its unusual, but please correct me if i'm wrong - he won't let me sleep over at his house.

  and he hardly ever stays at my house, he's maybe stayed here 3 times in our whole relationship.

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  co dependency is not healthy..
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  Jws working my neighborhood...

  by mrsjones5 in

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  and i missed them again.

  last time i saw them walking down the other side of my street.

  today they stopped by when i was out and i missed them by about ten or twenty minutes and no they didn't leave any mags.

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  Sassy

  I have never been called on.. or had any sign left at my door that they were there..

  and no dubs know where I live, so it isn't that they are purposely missing me..
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  Not allowed to sleep over - is that weird?

  by collegegirl21 in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  okay, so my guy and i have been together for 10 months and we usually are ok together.

  but there is something that has been getting to me and i think its unusual, but please correct me if i'm wrong - he won't let me sleep over at his house.

  and he hardly ever stays at my house, he's maybe stayed here 3 times in our whole relationship.

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  Sassy

  this is that same guy who doesn't think you coming to California is such a good idea right?

  I've had controlling men in my life.. trust me.. he is one.
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  JWs and Chaperones

  by keyser soze in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  so here's the story.

  my brother invited me over to his place, just to hang out, watch movies, etc.

  he was supposed to work until 4, so i should come by anytime after that.

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  Sassy

  its nuts but it is believable...

  and yes they would done some counciling if they had known you were there..

  Imagine though if after her hiding you out, they still found out.. that would have really looked bad
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  Not allowed to sleep over - is that weird?

  by collegegirl21 in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  okay, so my guy and i have been together for 10 months and we usually are ok together.

  but there is something that has been getting to me and i think its unusual, but please correct me if i'm wrong - he won't let me sleep over at his house.

  and he hardly ever stays at my house, he's maybe stayed here 3 times in our whole relationship.

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  Sassy

  well he definately has issues.. he needs to get over them

  or he is hiding something.. like another girl..