Okay, so my guy and I have been together for 10 months and we usually are ok together. But there is something that has been getting to me and I think its unusual, but please correct me if I'm wrong - he won't let me sleep over at his house. And he hardly ever stays at my house, he's maybe stayed here 3 times in our whole relationship. And I'm not talking about sleeping over until the morning, I'm talking about like waking up at 5am and then leaving.
He says that once I stop being so insecure he'll let me sleep over and I say that once he lets me sleep over I'll stop being so insecure and so then he said, "So if I give you your way, you won't be insecure anymore?" And I told him that's right.
So he proceeds to say, "If a kid is crying for a toy, you're just going to give it to them?" Then I just told him I had to go (cause we were on the phone talking and I was thoroughly irritated with him). Am I wrong for wanting to spend the night? I've been patient and I've compromised what I've wanted for 10 months, how come he can't compromise with me? And I don't want to spend the night every night, just on the weekends when I'm not working. Can someone please give me some sort of light as to what to do or should I just be patient? Is there something that I'm not seeing?