Delite2K,
I'm really sorry to hear what happened to you. Your story really boils my blood as I went to a similar situation with a JW girl. You are so right about him taking away your happiness. That's what that girl did to me. I know it makes you angry as it did to me, but one thing you can do is move on, ignore him at work, start going out with friends or start going out with other guys (that will definitely call his attention).
In closing I would like to know, How could someone who claims to be a servant of God do this to me? How could he talk about the bible or witness to people with a straight face knowing he's hurt someone that he says he care about? Is this what they teach in the Kingdom Hall, to be decietful?! To hurt people?! But he still wants me in his life. What did I do to him? Why do men have to be like this?
They make all these claims and believe me, they are HYPOCRITES: They think that they are the only ones who have the right and can do the hell they want without regard to non-JWs only because they think they are "blessed" and belong in "God's true organization". Believe me also that all of them, JWs, men or women, hurt people. The list grows, you are not the only non-JW who's been hurt.
- He still wants you in his life. NO! don't do that, cut yourself from his life. He's saying that to use you and to toy you around as in controlling you.
- What did you do to him? I don't think you did anything to him all you wanted to do is to get closer to him, but because of his SCREWED UP religion, he's playing mind games with you because you're not a JW.
- Why do men have to be like this? Not all men are like this. Soon, you'll find someone better who appreciates and loves you NOT because of religion, but because of WHO you are.
Sorry for being long, but like I said, this boils my blood.
Regards and hugs,
Ajax