For those of you in a serious relationship, is your partner "worldly", an ex dub, or a current dub?
My wife is an ex dub like me.
It certainly helps that she understands why I am the way I am, and the actions of her in - laws.
What about you?
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worldly, ex dub or current dub?
by pratt1 in.
for those of you in a serious relationship, is your partner "worldly", an ex dub, or a current dub?.
my wife is an ex dub like me.. it certainly helps that she understands why i am the way i am, and the actions of her in - laws.. what about you?
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Do Must Dubs Have Pre-Marital Sex?
by tall penguin init's not often talked about but in my experience a lot of witnesses have sex (or something like it) during their courtship.
and most of them never go to the elders about it.
recent case in point: my dear friend got married this past summer.
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pratt1
In a 2 year period I attended about 20 weddings including my own.
Nearly all had pre marital sex
Nearly all are divoced from that partner.
Including myself.
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I wish my former friends would leave the "lie" I mean "truth"!!
by weinermcgee ini still dream about this often!
some of my childhood friends stop being jw's so i can have them back as my friends, it would be like a dream come true.
but some of you might say: "you would take them back as friends?
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pratt1
I mis some of my old firend, too.
I believe they were true friends but afriad to go against the system because of their own personal reasons.
I shunned some of my good friends as well when they left the "lie", so I know the feeling of losing some one you really love but are afraid to take a stand against the cult.
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Marriage and Age
by pratt1 in.
would you marry someone more than 15 years older or younger than yourself?.
it seems to be somewhat common for men to marry women significantly younger than them selves, but when a woman marries a man much younger, it seems to generate a lot of attention.. what are your thoughts?
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pratt1
Would you marry someone more than 15 years older or younger than yourself?
It seems to be somewhat common for men to marry women significantly younger than them selves, but when a woman marries a man much younger, it seems to generate a lot of attention.
What are your thoughts?
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Where you from??????
by ozziepost inhave you noticed those exotic locations some of our posters come from?.
some of you sure come from some exotic places!
you have the rest of us jealous.. but wait a minute.......is it possible our profiles don't tell where we really are at all?.
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pratt1
Born in Mahattan.
Raised in Bklyn and Queens, NY
Lived as a young adult in Manhattan.
Now live in New Jersey.
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Was Anyone Disfellowshipped Twice? How About Three Times?
by anewme inyears ago there was this guy ****** ******* i'll never forget him.
disfellowshipped 3 times!!!!
at the last dfing announcement the brother got up there and yelled into the mic .
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pratt1
A friend of mine has been disfellowshipped 3x.
1. Sex
2. Sex and wife abuse
3. Embezzlement of funds from a lot of dubs
He is now reinstated.
He has also appealed being disfellowshipped twice and won.
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Where were you on the a.m. of 9/11/01?
by rebel8 ini was at work -- a manager in a hospital that is the regional treatment center for one medical specialty...region includes nyc.
someone came & grabbed me hard by the arm and pulled me into a room, where i saw every single mgr.
sitting silently watching tv.
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pratt1
I had just gotten off the ferry from Jersey City into the WTC wheen the first plane hit. I just didn't believe my eyes. Debris, bodies and furniture was falling out of the sky.
I was stuck on the concourse of the WTC and after staring in the sky for minutes I finally ran to my office.
I was scheduled to be at a meeting in tower 2 from at 8:30, but because my department was being audited, I cancelled my attendance on the Friday before.
Out of the 20 people at the meeting, only 8 survived. The meeting was on the 98th floor.
I still get the shivers when I think of that day.
My new motto: "live everyday to the fullest, it may be your last."
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To All Of The Kids Who Survived the .....
by BrendaCloutier infirst, we survived being born to mothers who smoked and/or drank while they carried us.
they took aspirin, ate blue cheese dressing, tuna from a can, and didn't get tested for diabetes.. .
then after that trauma, our baby cribs were covered with bright colored lead-based paints.. .
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pratt1
I also remember that we were taught to respect our elders (older people) and if an adult in the neighbood saw you do something bad, you hoped they wouldn't tell your parents or boy, you were going to get it.
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WHAT'S THE PETTIEST THING YOU DID AS A JW?
by steve2 ini snitched on a sister who used to spend a lot of supposed field service time in a local cafe, but she still counted the time.
she was spoken to by a couple of elders and was never seen in that cafe again.
of all the things i did as a "loyal" jw, i feel worst about my snooping on this really nice lady.
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pratt1
I shunned friends because their meeting attendance was irregular and they ralely went out in FS.
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Does your family still think you are coming back?
by kid-A inhope springs eternal in the wts.
despite having left before even being baptized, i would have to say my parents still wholeheartedly believe i will someday come around, .
get baptized, become active and maybe even become an elder !
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My Mom definitely hpoes I will "get my life straight with Jehovah."
I, on the other hand refuse to give her any false hope.
I constantly remind her that the elders make decisions that ruin peoples lives and I will never submit to that again.
Then she changes the subject.