the one about not being alone w/the opposite sex
it puts things in peoples minds that were never there
kind of perverted huh?
the rule on having "large gatherings" was stupid.
because some people abused a "christian get-together" that had a lot of people, we could only get together in smaller groups.
the one about not being alone w/the opposite sex
it puts things in peoples minds that were never there
kind of perverted huh?
i had my girls over last night for dinner.
during the conversation, we talked about a number of things, in where i detected that they have grown up so much in making decisions for themselves that are totally contrary to the borg beliefs and standards.
the movies they watch, music they listen to, people they hang out with, parties they go to, video games they play.. i have talked to my girls everyday since last week.
puternut--
thanks for the inspirational update.
that is so nice to hear!!
Sinamon
welcome!!
this place will be most interesting for you, trust me!!
Sinamon
most people have left the organization because of emotional issues.
the feeling that there is no real love or fellow feeling seems to get at people.
it gnaws at them.
still confused :o(
a bit earlier this weekend but still, how's it going for you so far?
good we hope.
anyway, today marks the 100th time we've gotten together to poll!
1,9,10,11
Hey!!! where was I when the sex stuff was discussed?
Sinamon
this is just a hypothetical question, but lets say you are a jw, but with one thing and another you realised that you didn't want to love forever, and so told the elders that not wanting to live forever yourself, you would be unable to to sell everlasting life to people on the doors, and that if you don't share the hope of other jw's, how can you really call yourself a jw?
basically you do not feel like a jw because you do not want what jehovah is offering you.. would they df you?
or would they let you fade?
imo, tons of shepherding calls for encouragement and then if you refused counsel then you would be df'd
it was a year ago this past week that i joined jwd.
being here has helped me with one issue in particular.
i would like exchange feelings/experiences with you about this, as i feel that it could be key for many of us.. i left the jws in 1977, was df in 1979. since then, and up until joining jwd, i had no knowledge of the machinations of the society.. some of the things i learned about here are, the flip flop on organ transplants, the un scandal and the 'two witness' rule being applied to paedophiles.
Talesin--
thanks for sharing. Im just beginning. I hope to get to where you are one day soon.
Sin
i wondered why i was not at ease being a witness till i learned what a cult is from many sorces, and stopped being so scared from day to day what god will do to me.
i am still scared of what he will do to me from being raised a witness, its weird they did not teach a firey hell, but they put the same kind of fear in me.
everytime some national problem comes along i freek, even when i no longer go to them meetings or read the tower.
PinTail--
Im still scared too. Just know that you are not alone. Theres lots of support here, from which you can draw comfort.
Sinamon
I choose cremation
I guess the idea of having my ashes being spread around gives me the feeling of being "free"
since for 10 years of my life i spent "in a box"
When Im dead, I wont care, but they always say funerals are for the living.
Sinamon
this subject has been gnawing at me for awhile now.. so many of you:.
1) were raised in "the truth?".
2) did you get baptized and at what age?.
1) kind of--started studying at age 12
2) 15
3) df'd at 25