(((Liz)))
Thanks for the update. Those preparations for the colonoscopy are the pits!!!! But it's good that it wasn't cancer. My mom years ago had a fistula near her rectum. Extremely painful surgery. Is that the same as a fissure? I know a fissure is a tear.
Yeah. Perhaps your husband was upset........ actually I don't want to comment on his behavior cause I might say something I'd regret later. I'm sure if it were he that had this going on he'd want your bedside support. Am I right?
Anyways. ........There has got to be another painkiller besides Percocet which is pretty strong. Something that won't make you vomit as that isn't keeping the pill down or doing your incision any good either.
God I feel for you. Are you supposed to at some time take a sitz bath (lower your bottom in warm water) for pain relief?
I remember after having my first baby who was over 9# they had to make a much longer episiotomy cut and that sucker WAS SORE.
Perhaps PM MsMcDuckett. She's a RN or else Merfi. She also is a nurse. They could give you some tips to relieve the pain.
Hugs with love to you. By the way, I wouldn't worry about the anal sex questions. These things happen for whatever cause.
Juni
Wishing you a speedy recovery!