Posts by bikerchic

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Would you date someone with a history of INCEST?

by kristyann in

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hey everyone!

i hope that at least someone missed me or noticed that i was gone!

i have been so busy, and i don't think that i've really been on here since june.

bikerchic

kristyann first off welcome back!

Second I have a question or two about this statement:

He's about 10 years older than me, so he's in his early thirties. He says it was about 5 years ago or something, and it took place over a period of several years. He's not like some kind of hick or something (I know that's what people usually associate with this kind of thing). He really isn't at all.

If he's in his early thirties that would make him what 25ish when this happened?

It took place over a period of several years which would put him just about the age he is now?

If that time line is correct, heck even if it's not correct the one thing I would say is as a twenty something year old person he knew exactly what he was doing and as a twentyish year old person what on earth kept him from saying NO? He knew it was wrong and he did it anyway.

And my next question is why would he allow it to continue for so long what was her threat to him to keep him there? As if there needed to be a threat from a woman....my gawd how weak is this guy besides having a weak character? His cousin sounds like a real nutter to even ask this of him I really doubt had he been strong and of strong character and turned her down no matter what kind of ruckus she raised I doubt few people would have believed her. What kind of creap does his family think he is that he would rape his cousin or anyone for that matter?Besides there has to be some pride felt by a man if he turns down a woman (cousin or not) and she called rape to know in his heart he didn't do the deed. He did not do the honorable thing. Sheese!

Okay I'm done and I totally get the sense from you kristyann that you are sickened by his conduct and as others have said it's probably just the tip of the iceberg. He sounds like one sick puppy I would run as fast as you can from him and at least you know this much he's a weakling and you won't have to fight him off! <grin>

Trust your gut on this one dear there are far too many really nice well adjusted men out there to waste any time on this guy. Go find yourself a good one and get to know him a lot better, a lot better before you start any talk of marriage or even sleep with him. You know that's the good thing about dating it's to see if you are compatible and have the same values which are very important things to consider when considering marriage. You two are a mismatch move on. Dump him like yesterdays dog turd.

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Children of Men FLUFF

by Asheron in

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the wife and i went to see this film today.

wow it blew me away.

it was a combination of apocalyptic futurism, a chase film, a love story, classic mythos, a contemporary political allegory with a taste of theism all in one.

bikerchic

Sounds like a good one it's on my must see list.

Thanks!

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crazyblondeb......hey, she needs some encouragement

by purplesofa in

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crazy can't get online, and jwd is a real support system to her right now.. i talked with her a few minutes ago on the phone......... and she is going to call me tomorrow.. her mom is driving her nuts, she is ready to make a change in her life........and i am asking you to encourage her, as she is being very couragious right now.

i am proud of her.

she is going to call tomorrow and i would like to be able to read some wonderful things to her from her friends at jwd!!!!!.

bikerchic

LOL

all tracks lead to Afghanistan..........a country where there are no witnesses.

and what happens in Afghanistan stays in Afghanistan!

((((((((((((Shelly))))))))))))

Crazy has been sleeping ALL day..........ahem

Go poke her and tell he I said "hi"..........................NOT!

Glad you're doing okay Shelly, hang in there I know it sure helps knowing so many people care about you.

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My time on this board has now come to an end

by IronGland in

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i'll miss some of you.

i curse others.

it's been an interesting 3 years.

bikerchic

Well hate to say it IronGland but I somehow just know you'll be back, maybe not as IronGland, or Franz, or Vormek2.8 or Vormek 4.20or (remains to be seen)......don't let the door hit ya where doG split ya!

Bye!

http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/6/107571/1870418/post.ashx#1870418

Get a life dude!

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My wife loves me more than I love her

by jayhawk1 in

love has always been a difficult concept for me.

i've dated several women that i had no emotional connection with.

i began to think falling in love would never happen.

bikerchic

No huge words of wisdom here jayhawk1 but from what you said:

I found somebody I could love and loved me back. We've been married for nearly 5 years and it has been a fairly happy marriage. Our only problem seems to be the economy has been down almost all of the years we've been together. But through it all, I've remained employed and we've never gone without essentials. We don't seem to ever fight, although we've both vented our frustrations from time to time. But there is one nagging problem that plagues me...
There is no doubt that my wife loves me more than I love her. Why is that? What's wrong with me?

I've often heard that love starts with the "self", to truly love someone else you must first love yourself. Then you feel complete and don't need another to complete you. Perhaps you could explore this more just the fact that you question something is wrong with you makes me wonder if that could be the problem. It's not a big problem and it is fixable.

In the meantime I can offer these words of wisdom.........act as if. Love is a verb do loving things and incorporate loving acts in yourself and your marriage will benefit. And good for you to recognize there is a problem and seek a solution.

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New here so this may be long...

by mandalion in

i wasn't born in the truth.

my parents started studying when i was five.

we started living all the principals completely when i was nine.

bikerchic

Welcome mandalion!

Glad you found us and I enjoyed reading your story. I know exactly how you felt I too was so surprised at the number of X-JW's who felt and experienced the same things I did, it sure validated my thoughts and feelings to see this.

The scales are falling from my eyes and with them, a weight is lifting from my shoulders and I realize what a good choice I made all those years ago.

Very well said!

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Grand Canyon / Sedona

by sandy in

my fiance and i visited the grand canyon and sedona last weekend and i was deeply impressed.

i'd never been to either place before then.. the grand canyon was so unreal!

it was snowing there which was just beautiful!

bikerchic

I cannot even describe the feeling I got when we visited Sedona and climbed Cathedral Rock. I cried and complained the entire way up. LOL But after we got to the top I was on a natural high. It was so beautiful!

Awe Sandy yes Sedona has got to be one of the most awesome places ever a definite must see, must do!

That natural high you felt could have been because you were within a half a mile of one of the 4 major vortexes in the area around Sedona. The locals say these vortexes are swirling centers of subtle energy coming out from the surface of the earth. This energy is not exactly electricity or magnetism, although it does leave a slight measurable residual magnetism in the places where it is strongest and it's because of the ancient native Americans who occupied that area for years. They attribute it's natural healing powers to these 4 vortexes. I was researching this a while back and wondered if there was a connection to the 4 major American Indian Tribes which lived in and around Sedona. Just a thought.

But you aren't the only one who has felt this in fact they say if someone is at all a sensitive person, it is easy to feel the energy at these vortexes, and it can be an uplifting experience. The energy absorbed in this way can have a positive effect for days afterwards. People come from all over the world to experience this like I said a must see and do for anyone who truly wants a relaxing vacation.

Can't beat the scenery either, the rock formations are incredible and the names of them say it all like Bell Rock, Coffee Pot Rock and up in Oak Creek Canyon Recreational area you've got to slide down Slide Rock! WEEEEEE!!

Cool place to see some of the local artisan is Tlaquepaque Art Village it's a shopping center with over 40 shops of local artist galleries plus restaurants you could spend a whole day there and drop a few hundred dollars easily too! Lots of local breweries around too and the mountain biking is phenomenal also a must do if you can.

Ah, can you tell I've been there done that and can't wait to do it again? LOL Thanks for the memories I absolutely love that place!

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First time for me.........."The wedding night"

by new boy in

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i had no idea what to expect!...................as in the case of most jws.

since sex is strickly forbidden before marriage.

at the time (1970's) kissing was even frowned at too.

bikerchic

LMAO @ this thread......why does this song come to mind:

Sixty Minute Man

William Ward)
Vocal Arrangement: The Persuasions

Well listen here girls, I'm telling you now.
They call me lovin' Dan.
I'll rock 'em, roll 'em all night long
I'm a 60 minute man.

And if you don't believe I'm all I say,
Come up and take my hand.
As soon as I leave you go you'll cry
"Oh Yeah, he's a sixty Minute Man!"

* There'll be 15 minutes of kissin',
And then you holler "Oh please don't stop!"
There'll be 15 minutes of teasin'
And 15 minutes of pleasin'
And 15 minutes of blowin' my top! MOP MOP MOP!

Well if your man ain't treatin' you right
Come up and see your Dan.
I'll rock 'em, roll 'em all night long
I'm a 60 minute man.

** 60 (Minute Man)
Well they call me (lovin' Dan)
I'll rock 'em, roll 'em all night long
I'm a 60 minute man.

** Repeat

* Repeat

Well if your man ain't treatin' you right
Come up and see your Dan.
I'll rock 'em, roll 'em all night long
I'm a 60 minute man.
Oh yeah! 60 Minute,
Rock'em, roll'em, rammin', jammin' all night long
I'm a 60 Minute Man

now that's what I'm talking about!

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Big day for me tomorrow

by iamfreenow in

hello everyone, i haven't been on here for a while, though i have read a few posts from time to time when i've been visiting my friends linda and trevor.

i would like to be here more, but i am retired now, and can't really afford a pc or the internet, being on a somewhat limited income.. since i left the watchtower society in august, i have kept myself reasonably busy.

i attend a couple of evening classes, help my non jw son and his wife out by babysitting when needed, and manage to see my jw sons' children as often as possible.

bikerchic

Big day, big decision good for you!

I will be getting baptised at about 11:30am UK time, and I am coming back here (to Trev and Lindas') for dinner tomorrow, so I will post on how it went.

Tell Linda and Trev hello they are special people in my book too.

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LOVE BIRDS

by purplesofa in

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