Thank you for being such a brave person. You had much to lose but your actions show that you care about the little ones. My daughter was molested by a little JW girl her same age who spent the night at our home. The girls were only eight years old. After about a week, my daughter came to me and told me that the other little girl had rubbed her privates, french kissed her, rubbed her boobies and tried to get on top of her and spread her legs with her knees.
I was very upset so I told the elders. The reason I was so upset wasn't only because this had happened to my innocent child. It was because I knew the other little girl had learned it from someone. The elders told me to drop it. I literally begged them to investigate how the other little girl learned to do those things. They said they asked the girl's father who told them she had learned it from "watching music videos." Now if that wasn't a bogus story.
My mother's intuition told me there was more to it and now I knew the girl's father was sweeping it under the rug. (His reaction was not concerned the way I had been. It was not natural for a loving father to not care.) The elders told me that once I inform them of a situation it is "no longer [my] business." They also informed me that they would investigate no further, nor even talk to the little girl because they had to "respect the wishes of her dad who was the head of the family." They also told me to "never, ever, ever say the word 'molest' about anyone in the organization!" The elder who talked to me even said that at the Ministerial Training School this topic had been discussed and it was orders from God's organization. Talk about a guilt trip.
At the time, I believed it was an isolated incident. My daughter didn't suffer nearly as much as little Erica nor many others. Now I know how widespread this problem is. And I also know why the elders acted the way they did. They made me feel as though *I* was the one doing something wrong in wanting to investigate. They even implied that my daughter could have been lying or exaggerating. Imagine a little eight year old making something like that up! It seemed to me then, and I can see it clearly now that the organization not only covers up what they know to be molestation, but when something like this comes to light, they instruct the elders to "nip it in the bud." They literally closed their eyes to it.
I have no knowledge what really the situation was. I only know nobody wanted to find out. This little girl possibly needed protection, but the name of "God's" organization was much more important. The gag order was put in place and it was buried deep in the closet, along with all the others.
Anyways, this was long-winded. But I just wanted to say thank you and God bless you!