I never got baptized either, was about to when I found JWD. I studied and hung out with the JWs for a good 20 years. Due to moving around and traveling a lot, I was never long enough in the same place to get serious about baptism, until the end of last year. I decided to make a choice one way or the other. I never went to "bad" places on the internet, and avoided any JW related site other than the official JW website, just as I was told. But then one night, someone sent me a link to JWD, curiosity got the better of me and I started reading some posts. At first I thought that JWD was a site for both JWs and ex JWs alike, and I thought it was cool that people could get along like that. Then I started to think that JWD was just a site for people who were DF'ed and wanted to make the JWs look bad on purpose, out of spite. Then I stumbled upon a 1914 generation thread which got me thinking very deep and very long. Before I knew it, I had ordered and read CoC.
Although I was never baptized, I am being shunned now.