i took oon board what you all said, to be honest i was crying all time (not like me) and i turned to you guys for support but basically what everyone said that ineeded to sort myself ouf first was right ,, and i think maybe i have, i still single but everytime my parents keep on stick up for myself they know i dont believe it no more , i know its took me ages to come to this but its true im hurting them like hell but i thinki have to for me .
does anyone understand??
xxx.
I TOOK OoN BOARD WHAT YOU ALL SAID, TO BE HoNEST I WAS CRYING ALL TIME (NOT LIKE ME) AND I TURNED TO YOU GUYS FOR SUPPORT BUT BASICALLY WHAT EVERYONE Said thaT Ineeded to sort myself ouf first was right ,, and i think maybe i have, i still single but everytime my parents keep on stick up for myself they know i dont believe it no more , i know its took me ages to come to this but its true im hurting them like hell but i thinki have to for me
does anyone understand?? xxx
it seems that no current jw's can answer this for me ?
they seem to avoid the question like the plague and i dont know why ?
is there any current jw's out there that know this answer ?.
i asked my dad fthat very question, he said that at the time they were the only org doing what he asked, even tho they celebrated birthdays etc, apparently still they were the closest christ got!!! after all they're imperfect!!!!!
love to know the answer to this myself, please pm me if you get it, x
i only seen one it was so funny.
is there any in the uk.
Ha thats true!!!
i only seen one it was so funny.
is there any in the uk.
are they all in the US?
was gonna put a fake id on for a laugh still know everything ther'e asking to get in, but are there any UK ones??
i'm a 4th generation dub and i was the epitome of a goodie-two-shoes elder's son.
i was taught/brainwashed that dating was evil and only for mature brothers (i distinctly remember a part on the assembly with a "demonstration" that said even 24 years old was too young to date and you should concentrate on becoming a ms or pioneer first) and went through so much soul-destroying guilt because of the society's utterly ridiculous stance on masturbation that it almost drove me to suicide.
didn't help that my father the elder had a massive porn stash.
YESSSSS
i've been dfed and had a lovely boyfriend and constantly took it out on him, i got reinstated and left and had anopther lovely boyfreind and got mad coz i was treatong him so nice he didnt appreciate everything i was feeling, (that i wasnt treating him the way i did the other)
and i got married to a dub when i was wrong that was crap too
conclusion....... get out there get laid do it ( but dont dare confess) you got to go thru things till you find the one!!!!!
i only seen one it was so funny.
is there any in the uk.
I ONLY SEEN ONE IT WAS SO FUNNY
IS THERE ANY IN THE UK
it feels like being in the twilight zone right now!
what kind of choice is is when we are put in the position of choosing between loved ones and our freedom??
i am so angry right now, i feel like screaming in frustration.
I SYMPATHISE COMPLETELY,
ITS EVIL AND YET HOW HARD IS IT WHEN YOUR LOVED ONES CANT SEE IT, THEY THINK WERE BLINDED WE KNOW THEY ARE!!!!!
they insisted i come over for a debate, a chance for them to save me since according to my mother this was "a matter of life and death.
" basically i spent the whole evening passively nodding my head and acknowledging what they said.
i tried a few times to argue or debate but getting through to them was impossible.
dont get this of course you cant wear tshirt and jeans to the convention or is it different in america????
as for standing up to your fa,mily i feel for you. so much, i'm having a hard time at the mo, and they really do veiw it as your life if your not going, i got dfed and reinstated for my family, so i'd say the 'fade' is always the way to go,
good luck,
my ex came back from the convention and the subject came up of familiy, marriage etc...i asked, how they believe marriage family etc will stand in "paradise"...do they believe earthly marriages will still be valid and mates will still be together, or is that annuled!!
!..also, whether families now will once again be families then..he didnt seem to be sure.. just out of interest, could anybody shed some light on the witness beliefs on this?.
thanks.
I thought the thought was that if your spouse died before armagadon you werent married. if you get thru together you're stuck together
but i never heard of if you were single thru armagadon you would stay single!!!! i thought that depended on when the earth filled up etc!!!!
i'm talking door to door service work here.
were you the kind who would insist on getting a conversation at ever door?
or where you (like me) the kind who would take a "not interested" as an excuse to get the hell out of the householders face?
I was the poineer straight from school aux for a few months then straight into regular up until two weeks before giving birth
did the hours even when they removed me once (what a mug!!!)
family of co and do's not many less than an elder, that's why its so god damn hard now being the black sheep of the family!!!!
