Some 'days of our lives' stories here - I recall a couple of elders' wives telling me they didn't trust a particular sister around their husbands. I laughed (didn't say anything) but from what this particular, older, sister, had told me she was into much younger bros. few yrs. out of high school and friends of her son. She told me they'd flirt with and go out of there way to talk, stand a little too close to her and always dropping by the house -- unreal and she'd mentally get involved with them. I told her time to see psychiatrist and these young bucks were just being nice and flirting back -- practicing on her and bored. The elders' wives telling me they didn't trust her were much younger than she, also, but probably right. Another married, pioneer, sister, was quite sad and in blue funk one day telling me about this young, single, dude's engagement. I wouldn't have thought much about it but she'd mentioned few mos previously one's weakness might be younger men and I thought how strange - why make a point of that but her husband was much older and my radar sensed she was unhappy. At the time the term 'Cougar' wasn't in vogue/lolol. We could make quite a soap opera.