onacruse,,,you do not mention how long you dated each of your wives
before getting married....
you have met someone who has touched your heart...how wonderful for you..
my advice is go for it...spend as much time as possible together,,,
get to know each other in every way possible...
but do this as friends...be open,,,be honest about everything...talk
talk and more talk...share,,share,,,share...be honest about "no
commitment" at this time...
you have a kind and tender heart ona,,,and obviously hate being alone..
why deprive yourself of some one who could be your soul mate...
go for it!!!!!!!! but go ever so slowly.....best wishes ona....