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  Waxing

  by Lo-ru-hamah in

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  i am going to try this on my legs.

  has anyone, or does anyone get their legs waxed?

  how bad does it hurt?

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  Lo-ru-hamah

  I am going to try this on my legs. Has anyone, or does anyone get their legs waxed? How bad does it hurt?
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  DATING 101: Dating Interacially and my opposite: Will it Work Out?

  by stillAwitness in

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  so me and the guy i've been dating finally became offical since last night and its the first time in almost a year since i have been in a relationship.

  and for once, i think i may have a winner.

  but he is white...and 32...and plays the african drums..and teaches some weird dance in a school for kids having to do with cuban tribal dances..or something or other.

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  Stila,

  Please don't think that was what I was implying. My implications were for the white guy that was so mean. I live in my own little world and forget that there are really ugly people out there that want to hurt others because their DNA said for them to be a certain color. The little world that I live in allows anyone who loves someone else to be together despite differences, if everyone looked the same it would be a rather boring world. The jerk white guy just startled me into reality. Not fun at all, I like my little world. Unicorns live there too. LOL

  Loruhamah
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  Parents' reaction to the baby

  by Nosferatu in

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  i know i'm telling you guys this a bit late, but i really needed to let it sink in.

  we told my parents about the baby sooner than we had planned.

  we told them last friday.

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  Nosferatu,

  I am sorry and understand what you are going through. The exact same reaction from my husbands parents. What about "a precious gift from God" do they not understand. I love babies and for the life of me don't know why I don't have more than one. But if you want to come and visit Texas I would love to spoil your baby like an aunt.

  Congratulations on your beautiful news.

  Loruhamah
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  DATING 101: Dating Interacially and my opposite: Will it Work Out?

  by stillAwitness in

  1. watchtower
  2. medical

  so me and the guy i've been dating finally became offical since last night and its the first time in almost a year since i have been in a relationship.

  and for once, i think i may have a winner.

  but he is white...and 32...and plays the african drums..and teaches some weird dance in a school for kids having to do with cuban tribal dances..or something or other.

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  Stila,

  Up until this week I thought that the race issue was really not an issue. But, I am a blonde, blue eyed white female, therefore, my ignorance becomes manifest. We own our own company and we hired a very nice young black man. He is an excellent worker and loves rodeos and cowboy stuff not that any of that is important. He is just a very nice well mannered young man, I like him immensely. This week he was doing his work, it is out door work, with the public, and a white man comes along and just completely disrespects him. Later, he comes back and pulls a knife on him and starts threatening. Fortunately, he had some tools nearby that he brandished and the guy left. The white guy then calls my husband and says that our employee tried to attack him and were we going to fire him. My husband told the man that this behavior did not sound like anything this young man would do. Upon arrival the police had been called and witnesses verified that the white man was trying to attack our employee with a knife. The police are looking for him now. Long story short, I was completely shocked. Race is still an issue and people might actually make your relationship more difficult. I thought that society had advanced past this but apparently and sadly not.

  On the other hand, I think that mixing the white and black races make the most beautiful people I have ever seen and if you do get together and happen to have a daughter please put my 3 year olds name in the hat for her.

  Congratulations on finding your mister perfect.

  Loruhamah
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  What would you change in your life if you knew when Armageddon would be?

  by JH in

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  i wouldn't change anything at all.

  i'd keep on living the way i'm living right now.. i'd say, take me or leave me behind.

  i come this way, and i' m proud of who i am.

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  Well, if I knew I wouldn't change my life. He is the reader of hearts, so if I am good I am good and if I am bad then I am going to burn. Though, if the Big A is as the Watchtower puts it, I would go visit all the places I have wanted to for years and haven't yet. Especially, all of the magnificent cathedrals and religious places that would presumably be destroyed by Armegeddon. So, basically, world travel until the end.
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  WERE THERE ANY DOUBLE LIVES IN YOUR CONGREGATION?

  by badboy in

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  any takers?

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  I have attended many, many KH's and in every one of them the majority of the people are living a double life.
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  Getting married in the kingdom hall ( ..."have you had sex?")

  by slimboyfat in

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  we plan to get married in the kh in the autumn.

  will the elders quiz us as to whether we have had sex beforehand?.

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  My husband and I were asked. It is part of having an elder give your wedding talk. I believe they ask even if you are not getting married in the KH. But if you admit to having sex with your intended, they will not let you marry in the KH.
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  New here,i hope someone might help,my abuser hung himself

  by Linzlou24 in

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  2. child-abuse

  hi,ummm ive just discovered this site and im not sure why im even writing this but im at rockbottom and i dont know how feel,maybe im just searching to find someone who might understand and help me understand because i feel so alone and ashamed,confused and sad,even people might find me bad because of how these events turned...but im not bad inside,ive always been such a soft caring person at heart,im a good person just always been lost,alone and confused....ill try not babble too much but from the beggining dad was here one minute,not the next and then not at all,to this day still never bothers,mum remarried when i was about 4,this was the guy who sexually abused me at 7,{mum never knew},they had a baby together...i found my brother dead in his cot,he died from cotdeath,and it was just all downhill from there with my life,that was after my brother i was abused by him....they split when i was around 8 and i guess my mum looking back now on it now just went on her own mission but it wasnt easy for me,she fell for another guy and we moved from one place to the next,every time i started a new school and made friends,it was time pack up and go and start all over.....

  mum settled again and remarried a third time when i was around 12,id started a new high school,maybe its just those teens but i went off the rails with mum,i was terrible,didnt mean to be,but i blamed her for all my hurt and life and id rebel at everything,drinking started,running away started and i just wish now i could have felt close when alls i wanted was to love and be loved back...the next bit until now{im 25 now} is what is killing more than ever and id very much appreciate your thoughts because im lower than ever and still scared....mum is very much here in my life now...its only been a few months but shes heartbroken and the love and understanding has been tremendous off her,she blames herself but i blame me.....

  when i started the new highschool i met this girl,she became my friend at the time and it was so good to have a friend id do anything she said....anyway she needed some money once and said i know this guy you can come to with me and he will pay you to touch your boobs,thats when it started i agreed because if i said no then shed probably laughed at me,so i went....,it sounds strange{he was nearly 50} but he was very very nice,and said i dont like the person whos brought you up here,shes nasty...,i hated him touch me but i was scared....but at same time i felt i could really trust him,me and this girl never did stay friends....theres another big big part in all of this,but from 13 this guy became the bestest friend i ever had in my whole life,but everything was a big secret,its lasted years...he had an hold over me,though i knew he was supposed be my friend i knew he musnt really be one else he wouldnt put me through the torture of crying and not coping when i had my baby...my babe is 8now but still when i let him touch my boobs so i can buy the best part of my life something nice or take him somewhere that man would buy bigger and better and undermine all my hurt....

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  Lo-ru-hamah

  Dear Linzlou,

  My heart breaks for the pain that you have gone through and continue to have to deal with. Please seek out assistance from a professional source to help you through this. You made a great step for coming here for friendship, and as you continue to seek friends, you will find, that there are people out there that will love you for you and not what they can get out of you.
  "Friendship is alway a sweet responsibility, never an opportunity."

  Much Love,

  Loruhamah
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  Film Scenes that got burnt onto your memory

  by greendawn in

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  what were some film scenes that pleased or horrified you so much that they stayed vivid in your memory for a long time?

  the one i always recall is the scene where anthony hopkins (playing as hannibal lector) lobotomised ray liotta (paul krendler) cutting off pieces of his brain and giving them to him to eat.

  he also took some of liotta's cooked brain in a plane and gave them to an unsuspecting passenger boy sitting next to him to eat.

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  One other, left a terrible impression -

  I can't remember the name of the movie, but Liam Neason and Jessica Lange, scottish movie. There was a terrible rape scene in it, Jessica Lange acted it out so well, I was completely shaken for days. Scared the hell out of me. And still can't remember the name of the movie????
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  Film Scenes that got burnt onto your memory

  by greendawn in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  what were some film scenes that pleased or horrified you so much that they stayed vivid in your memory for a long time?

  the one i always recall is the scene where anthony hopkins (playing as hannibal lector) lobotomised ray liotta (paul krendler) cutting off pieces of his brain and giving them to him to eat.

  he also took some of liotta's cooked brain in a plane and gave them to an unsuspecting passenger boy sitting next to him to eat.

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  Lo-ru-hamah

  Three scenes from Room with a View.

  The First - Of course, the kiss in the field of poppies

  The Second - The preacher getting out of the water from his bathe - hysterical

  The third - The final scene - Very sexy

  Then there was the scene with the incredibly beautiful Italian guy.

  I just love that entire movie, I think that it must all be etched