Gill
There are tons of fotos of the daughters in the house and their Mom enjoys passing them around as best she can. She is only in her forties or so. I have to guess that she would like to see her daughters but can't buck the system now so close to the end.
The whole shunning thing seems to be enforced by the spiritually strong, annointed husband who has less chance of entering paradise than either Bill Gates or a camel if you ask me.
I try not to judge but the guy already threw away his daughters and now his wife for his shot at being a Prince. Sad because there are two Sisters in the congo whose job is to make sure at least one Sister is assigned to be with his wife at all times because she is doesn't want to die alone and has said so many times. They are also tasked to clean, cook and do whatever else is necessary to keep the husband from having to cut back in the ministry. If a Sister says "No" then she is either marked or beaten with guilt, something like "why don't you want to help the poor lady who is dying?"
I'm dying to hear one mention that it's her husband, the spiritually strong one, who doesn't want to help.