Posts by jojochan

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new girl

by nomoreTRUTHplz in

i began studying with the witnesses in 02 and was baptized in 04 but within months of baptism i stopped attending meetings.

my marriage was rocky at best before i studied (husband abusive) but after it just continued to get worse.

i had a baby daughter when i started and had my son while going to meetings and out in service as unbaptized publisher.

I know there's bigger news

by cyd0099 in

but my girlfriend dumped me last night.

she lost the spark she had for me she said...

i am alone again and i could use a hug.

I'm listening man. I know it hurts....believe me. But take each day as it comes, be around friends, to me isolation NEVER helps me at all. Sure I get these fleeting moments of pain and sure I stop and stare of into space and get a pin prick in my heart about what took place and the love that me made. But don't get bitter towards your heart. It never helps.

Licks your wounds for now...I did. I then went out and did like any other single man would do. And that's get out there and shake my ass on the dance floor and project positive vibes to the women. I was shocked how pleasantly they reacted.

But it takes your own time frame to heal. Everyone is different.

And you know what's crazy? When you bite the bullet and NOT call her crying and begging...

she'll call you.

women....I love them so much....

Hang in there man.

jojochan

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My Last Memorial?

by jojochan in

last night just proved to me just that.

as i sat there last night while the speaker kept going on,.

and on, i zoned out.

jojochan

The essence of the situation is why do the JWs stop the R&F from being part of the New Covenent which is there for all Christians, that is a very devious and harmful thing to do.

I wish I knew why as well... Is it becuase of them not wanting the silent lambs to be empowered with knowledge about the real truth of their worth? I really wonder about their justification of that.

jojochan.

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JW urban legends

by Highlander in

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i remember very few of the details, of when, where and exactly what took place, however a few years ago i was told the story about three elders that were walking together and the middle.

elder was struck and killed by lightning.

the other two elders went to his house to help out his wife and discovered 'apostate' material in their home.

jojochan

loved smurfs, until they told me they were demonic and they would run around halls... that was traumatizing to an eight year old...

I thought I was the only one!! wow....

But really; I know hella jw urban legends. Like the one where a brother goes to a nightclub and meets a nice sexy lady. They have drinks and engage in simulated coitus on the dancefloor(freakin') Then goes to her place for a nightcap, and hot butt naked sex. When the morning came, he got up out of bed where she layed sound asleep, walked over to the bathroom, and loe and behold he found the"truth" book.(you can see how old this was, right?) Well, it turned out that she was an unbaptised publisher. He was shocked but excited and aroused her from her sleep.

He was so in x-stacy he could not help BUT to out himself.

But alas she felt extreamly guilty of last nights' trist....but did not tell him.

Weeks later she found the congregation that he attended; told the elders in full erotic detail of what took place and revealed that she is pregnant with his child.

And in those days, 9 times out of 10 there were no such thing as "public" or "private reproof. He got disfelloshipped.

Yeah....it's true, DAMN true.

And another thing...I had hella smurfs, my dad was liberal in that department....I love my dad.

But it sucked because I REALLY wanted MY smurfs to come to life and play with me since I was an only child at the time .

jojochan.

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What First Pops Up Into Your Mind When You Hear "Jehovah's Witnesses"???

by minimus in

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now, i think "stupid".

jojochan

Well, I get a feeling, not really a image. Back in the day when I was in when someone said that name. I felt proud and open about it.

Now, when someone says that; I get a bad chill up my spine and pin prick in my chest. It's like when someone says a racial slur that's not really directed at you but you know that it was directed at you. And I know what it felt like to have that happen.

So yeah, that's the feeling that I would get.

jojochan.

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What Do You Do For Fun?

by minimus in

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friends

personally, i love music, especially live music.

i often go on weekends to listen to r&b, soul, funk, etc.

what do you enjoy doing?

jojochan

What do I do??

I used to love to play my music, but since I've been working overtime for the moment I guess 30mins of Ps2 at end of the day would do it. that and watch movies,and anime.

I know....sad huh?

jojochan.

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My Last Memorial?

by jojochan in

last night just proved to me just that.

as i sat there last night while the speaker kept going on,.

and on, i zoned out.

jojochan

Yo kw, I'm fine now, it's just that you get those fleeting moments from time to time though. I'm taking it one day at a time.

thanks.

jojochan.

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Well, my wife flipped out.

by rassillon in

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friends

i hope i don't go too long with this.... last night my wife and i were talking about her day in service.

we talked about several things of little consequence and then i made mention of a point out of the reasoning book to underscore the importance of our need to be well versed in the facts that support our beliefs.

said point is on 416 of the rs book.

jojochan

Damn...I feel your pain. I also think that it's something they put in the baptism pool. But seriously; you can show them straight from their own source too about the doctrine changes, and they would not believe it. Most of the collective would not catch it. Because most of them don't really read the material that they are pushing out there in the street.

Spiritual blinders perhaps?

jojochan.

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Dansk (Ian) --- Not doing as well as could be hoped

by Alleymom in

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friends

hi, friends ---.

just a note to let you know ian has had a setback.

there is a problem with his kidneys and he had to have a catheter inserted.

jojochan

I remember reading an old thread of his regarding his experience when he realized the "truth" about the truth and it touched me. Then I read a little bit more about him and his ailment and it touched me even more. My heart goes out to him and to his family during all of this.

My prayers and thoughts are with him, and his family.

jojochan.

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Just thought I would share

by lola28 in

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friends

what a crappy morning i'm having.

first i over slept i was reading coc till one in the morning and woke up late, then i decided to walk to work, it's only a 15 min.

walk.

jojochan

((((lola28))))

What suxs even more is that you're ending the week with meeting the elders.

Positive thoughts are with you lola.

jojochan.