I was going to ask for money one time but after hearing that I would have to pay it back. I was told by the elders to see what I could do to get the help first and then come back to them if I still needed it. I was unemployed at the time and needed help with the rent....a single mother mind you.
I went to a church instead who helped without any questions.
Didn't even ask for the money back.
That's Christian love. Unconditional love.