I have never noticed that women are held to a higher standard and greater accountability than men in sexual matters. But then I'm a guy, so maybe I just missed this. It wouldn't surprise me.
My most humiliating experience by far was the sexually explicit tell-all confession session with three elders during my judicial committee. They just sat there and asked sexually explicit questions, and I answered them honestly, without trying to hide anything from them, even volunteering details they missed. I couldn't make eye contact with any of them, and the questions went on for at least two hours. I really felt that the confession would make me feel better, wash me clean in some metaphysical sense. In reality though it just made me feel dirty and ridiculous.