No....not me, or myhusband. We have always agreed that if either of us cheat....it is over because neither of us would be the type that could trust the cheater ever again. We got married at ages 31 and 34...and we knew darn well what we were getting into and what we each expect from one another.....so, in my case...no way.
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If your mate cheated on you, could you forgive?
by avidbiblereader invery personal and yet it happens way too often, but would you forgive and if you did, how would it change you and the relationship?.
or is it over?.
abr.
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Hubby and I are about to have 3 major life changes.....Whew!
by megsmomma infirst news is that we are going to be moving to nc from tx in the next couple months....we are so happy about that!
hubby grew up there, and we have his family there.
hubby got a new job with in his company, so he will be learning new things and meeting new people....a good change for him.. and the biggest....we are likely to get full custody of his 3 and 5 year old girls...and move them with us.
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megsmomma
Thanks everyone....We have been waiting for all these things to start happening for over a year now, so it feels surreal that they actually ARE! We have 2 months till we go back to court...so we will not be going anywhere till then.
For the next 2 months, we have to call the ex every night and record her. Last night my hubby called...and she answered.."Hello..." and he said..."This is Buddy...can I talk to the girls?" She smugly said "Uhhh....Nope" and hung up. So he called back and again said "Can I talk to the girls?" And she didn't say anything, just hung up...then he called and got the machine and started saying .."This is Daddy, girls, I love you..." and she turned the machine off in the middle of it. She has told my hubby the girls think he is dead and "God" told her he was going to die soon. She is weird....and, I won't feel bad taking the girls from her.....She has done this to herself. Plus, we will be agreeable and flexable with her being able to see them.
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Hubby and I are about to have 3 major life changes.....Whew!
by megsmomma infirst news is that we are going to be moving to nc from tx in the next couple months....we are so happy about that!
hubby grew up there, and we have his family there.
hubby got a new job with in his company, so he will be learning new things and meeting new people....a good change for him.. and the biggest....we are likely to get full custody of his 3 and 5 year old girls...and move them with us.
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megsmomma
First news is that we are going to be moving to NC from TX in the next couple months....We are so happy about that! Hubby grew up there, and we have his family there
Hubby got a new job with in his company, so he will be learning new things and meeting new people....A good change for him.
And the biggest....We are likely to get full custody of his 3 and 5 year old girls...and move them with us. (His ex has not let us see them for over a year, and we just now have enough money to take her back to court, and his lawyer says he will likely get them) I will go from one baby full time, to three!! But, I love em to death!
Whew....This is gonna be one heck of a year!
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"Honor" of one's parents
by Pahpa inhonor is defined in the dictionary as "esteem, respect, reverence.
" the first commandment relating to human relationships was to "honor your father and mother.
" (exodus 20) this even included giving material assistance to them if they were in need.
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megsmomma
Good point. I hate to say it...however if my JW mother who shuns me ever needs my support finacially....I wouldn't do it. I guess I would rather willfully disobey since the shunning hurts so much. I am BAD.
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Wanted to share this sunset with you all, took photos
by needproof inalthough i could not get the ball of the sun in the shots, here is an indication of what it was just like for us, very beautiful!
i hope this shows how beautiful it was for us!
6pm local time.
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megsmomma
Those are AMAZING!!!!!!!! What country do you live in?
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Elders are after me--PART 2
by love2Bworldly inok--i have decided i do want to answer the door when the elders return.
i won't let them speak at all, i am going to hold up my hand and tell them to let me have my say.
i am planning to say the following, and i'm trying to keep it very simple and to the point:.
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megsmomma
I think you have a great response......You don't have anything to prove...and you just may plant a seed of doubt...then someone else will be used to do the watering if it is possible down the line.
And...if you try the "lock em in the garage with the doberman"....and you add the skunk....Don't leave the poor dog in there!!LOL!
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JW says the tract campaigns are working
by truthseeker ini was talking to a pioneer yesterday; he was all excited over the new memorial tract, said how nice it looked.
he commented that the "society said we don't have to take not-at-homes for this campaign.".
i asked him what he thought of the campaigns and the fact that we have a convention campaign coming up soon.
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megsmomma
Carla...Means keeping tract of the people not at home, and returning later to try to catch them..... Now they can just leave the tract at the door and not go back.
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Help! Elders are after me-need advice!
by love2Bworldly inhi--3 times this weekend 2 elders came to my door asking for me by name (my kids answered the door).
apparently my jw sister notified the elders about the letter she received from me several months ago and gave them my new address.
my letter was very clear about how i felt about the watchtower society and i have not stepped foot in a kingdom hall in about 15 years, and the last 8 years of that was sporadic at best.. why should i talk to people i did not invite to my home, when i know they are coming to condemn me?
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megsmomma
Maybe it is an oppertunity for you to show them a few things.....Like you know the things going on in the BORG....The changes being made, ect...and the realization that there is no way they have God's backing. Since you have nothing to lose......maybe you have something to gain. (Helping cult members...plant a seed) :)
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Told MIL I need a few weekends off
by hambeak intold jakes mom i am not going over there for a while and i need a little time off for me.. a lot of feces hit the oscilator so what i need is to take care of me for awhile.. no cooking or cleaning for them for a while.. a lot of anger at me now so how do i tell them to f$$cj off?.
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megsmomma
Hi Hammy....
Sometimes relationships are toxic for you to be in....PERIOD. You don't have to nurture them. This is how I feel about my step-dad. I will occasionaly talk to him.....but I don't put myself out there anymore. You don't have to make excuses or apologize. It is the way it is, and it is your right to avoid them...and you don't even have to tell them that that is what you are doing....just do it.
Good luck, stay strong!
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JWs: "YOU must pray, then, this way: 'Our Father...'"
by AuldSoul inmatthew 6:9 "you must pray, then, this way: our father in the heavens, let your name be sanctified.
'" (nwt).
we know the bible shows jesus praying to his father, but who is our father?.
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megsmomma
It was amazing to me that I always thought the Trinity did not make sense....Thw whole 1+1+1=1 thingy they teach....Well...It took me about 3 days of researching on my own that I DO believe...and it is clear to me that Jehovah God came down as Jesus....and sacraficed himself for us...and our sins.