My understanding is that in their very own literature, 'worldly' persons, (anyone who doesn't toe their party line) are doomed for destruction. Birdfood. Go to Tallyman's site, and you will see EXACTLY, in no uncertain terms, what Watchtower thinks of non-JW's.
As far as the neighbors thinking highly of them, the Germans thought that way about Hitler too---untill it was too late. Aside from the millions of civilian and non-civilian lives lost, Germany is still bearing the financial BURDEN of their misplaced faith--no, their PARENTS' and GRANDPARENTS' misplaced faith.
The fact is, Watchtower has no choice but to start doing 'good works' toward their neighbors. Under the best of circumstances, Watchtower exists in an uneasy truce, a 'cease fire' arrangement with their fellow citizens. Just read their literature; JW"s have been taught that non-JW's are going to set upon and kill the 'anointed' and all the other JW's with them. (I gag and choke when I think how I BOUGHT this paranoid delusional thinking)
IF ANY thinking, rational person thinks, with full knowlege of Watchtower history, doctrines, and practices, that these people make GOOD NEIGHBORS, I hate to think what a BAD NEIGHBOR would be.
And the facts are, JW's are beating, raping and murdering one another at a rate unprecedented in their 120+ year history. I would hardly classify this 'as law-abiding' as a group of people.
As far as Bethelites not living that great a life, I'm sorry...I have to get up and COMPETE every day of every week of every month of every year to keep myself employed. I have to have licenses, I have to seek medical care for myself and my family, I have to procure continuing education, I gota get out there and DO STUFF to keep alive. Statements about how good Bethelites DON'T have it is a little ridiculous. The price they pay with the years of their life and in other ways is way too high, but nontheless a long-term Bethelites and the GB have no concept how to live in the real world.
Don't believe me? Look at the death rate of JW's, becasue of the advice these maniacs give the rank and file. And continue to give the rank and file as the body count steadily rises.
WE HAVE MORE WORK TO DO...
Someone who prays daily for my DEATH is NOT a good neighbor in my mind.