Looks as if she got her hubby on the bounce, she settled for a mindless drone and gave us einstein (in comparison that is). Now she regrets it she is just trying to make you feel bad about not being invited to her wedding (big deal), or maybe she wishes it was you had married. Hence, she didn't want you there because she knew she was making a mistake
Actually Buffalosfree, we were both single at the time of this conversation. She had no hubby, or wedding. She is still single today.