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  Why are people so dramatic

  by rebel8 in

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  i want to retire.

  i'm quite a ways off from the age to collect social security and all.

  i don't hate working--i actually like it.

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  Hortensia

  I'm thinking of ordering a T-shirt that says, "Not my monkeys, not my circus!"

  Or, maybe, "My name is Wes, I ain't in this mess!"
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  Why can't I just leave?

  by Trapped in JW land in

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  some of you may know my situation.

  i'm still going to meetings, but i am a closet apostate and homosexual i. only keep going to meetings to please my family and some friends.

  i guess i could tell my mom i no longer want to be a jehovah's witness and stop going to meetings, but i'm too scared to do it.

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  Living authentically gives you peace of mind, reduces stress. If the authentic you is homosexual, hiding that is stressful. Maybe don't rock the boat until you move over to the university, but definitely the day you tell the truth about yourself and how you feel about that stupid religion is the day you set yourself free.
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  It's all coming back...

  by SoJo16 in

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  i joined the board this month and holy cow, are there ever some interesting points of view here.. a bit about my background: my dad was an unbaptised born-in who nevertheless went to vietnam and college where he met my mom.

  mom was lutheran, but dad told her the only religion he was interested in belonging to was the jdubs.

  they married in the early 70s and were both baptized.

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  Hortensia

  Hi, so glad to hear you got out of the wtbts and got your education. I love all the different opinions on this forum and all the experiences that so many have shared. Glad you're here, too.
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  Bill Cosby - too much smoke for no fire?

  by Simon in

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  it seems like the list of people who are accusing him of rape and sexual assault is growing every day.

  i'm skeptical of single accusations but the number of people and the similar stories seem overwhelming now.. it's not a conviction but to the court of public opinion ... guilty?.

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  My own rule of thumb is that if one person makes the charge, you can't say one way or the other what really happened. But when one person makes a charge, and then other people start coming out of the woodwork making the same charge, it is likely true.

  I recall many years ago some report about him cheating on his wife, and his claim that she forgave him for it.

  I bet a lot of old geezers who pulled that sort of thing 30 years ago or so are quaking in their boots now, for fear they'll get Jimmy Savilled too. Or maybe they are arrogant SOBs who don't think it was wrong and aren't worried.

  Arghhh!
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  If You Don't Believe In God Anymore, Do You Still Say God Bless You or Thank God, etc.?

  by minimus in

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  honestly, do you??

  and if you do, isn't that hypocritical!.

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  Hortensia

  I quite often say, "jesus christ!" with feeling. If the feeling is really intense, I say, "jesus f*cking christ!"

  Does that count?
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  Why are people so dramatic

  by rebel8 in

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  i want to retire.

  i'm quite a ways off from the age to collect social security and all.

  i don't hate working--i actually like it.

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  Hortensia

  Oh, dear! I have some bad news for you, dear. I am retired, live in a senior apartment complex. I never saw so much drama! Right now terrible drama over elections for the residents' association board. I do believe -- and I'm not kidding -- that the police will be called over this one. One gal has had to be taken to the hospital because her blood pressure got too high during a shouting match. She wasn't shouting, just being shouted at. Oh lordy, emotions run high around here. Over everything. As you said, "Drama, drama, drama. It's like how I imagine Survivor to be--someone's always trying to build an alliance and vote someone off the island." Right now they're trying to vote the current residents' association president off the island.

  I recommend a desert island. Except that as soon as you get there, Survivor will show up and start filming.
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  Ongoing frustration with wife

  by Flipping El in

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  i've tried taking the slow, patient approach with my wife.

  i believe i first posted here about 13 months ago about my wife.. we've always had good communication and could talk endlessly about philosophy, neuroscience, sociology and then when i learned the ttatt, i clammed up a bit about spiritual things.

  i'd always been fairly liberal, suggesting other alternative ideas, but then i told my wife about the un/ngo scandal (i ran across the guardian story doing a talk as an ms, lol!

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  I agree with apognophos. She may be trying to get you to tell her you won't leave her and don't want another wife. She may be trying to say what she thinks you are thinking, trying to get you to get off the fence. If you want the marriage to last, then you should start reassuring her that you love her, even if you don't believe in the wtbts. You might be a little too delicate in your attempts to not rock the boat.
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  I have nothing left in the tank, I need help

  by Yondaime in

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  i dont have the willpower to attend meetings anymore.

  i'm literally on the sound system list every week.

  i'm either reading on sunday or tuesday, praying on tuesday nites, adjusting mics, passing mics, or working the sound system, or doing last minute parts for the service meeting.

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  Maybe find out about studying overseas for a year. Exchange program or something. Germany, maybe? After all, it's a good JW thing to learn a second language anyway.
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  just wanted to introduce myself

  by TheMark in

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  i've been a lurker for quite some time and enjoy the forum.

  i've reached a point in life where i don't argue ideologies anymore so i don't have much to say.

  i've been out for decades and believe i've been mostly de-cultabilized (if that's even a word).. my family is still in and i haven't had contact with them in years.

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  Hortensia

  Hi, from another Californian

  northern California, that is, the state of Jefferson (LOL)

  Welcome to the forum

  Hortensia
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  The fight between God and Satan. Boob job or not.

  by Gnostic Bishop in

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  the fight between god and satan.

  boob job or not.. .

  i am on bible gods side for perhaps the first time in my life.i too think a boob job in order for satan.. .

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  Hortensia

  I don't understand entirely. BTW, watch British television instead. I notice that the Brit television shows seem to use male and female actors who look like real, ordinary people.