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  holding off on my baptism???

  by madcow78596 in

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  so i've been studying with jws since april 2011.

  1 year later i decide to become an unbaptized publisher and take steps toward dedicating myself to jehovah.

  i'm a single working mother of 2 with what i will call a very "colored" past.

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  jamiebowers

  Welcome to JWN! Just in case you're not aware, the vast majority of people have a colorful past. Please don't allow yours to guilt you into pledging your allegience to a high control group! Your open mindedness with your kids will NOT fly with the Watchtower. Take some time to research the organization, and analyze what it is about your colorful past that urged you to study with the jws in the first place.

  Your reservations about being baptized are correct. It's very hypocritical for your study conductor's husband to object to you wearing the very same clothes that his wife and daughter wore. Maybe he's just a dirty minded fool who looks at you through a different lense than he sees them.
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  newbie here - i need advice

  by kassad84 in

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  hello, i've been lurking in this forums for a while but its only now that i've created an account.

  i'm an inactive jw, been in and out sporidically these past few years, but its only these recent months after reading crisis of conscience and christian freedom that i think i will never go back there again.. the reason i've been inactive primarily is because i have issues regarding masturbation and porn.

  my conscience cannot allow to continue preaching while i continously being overcome by these habits myself.

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  First, welcome to JWN! Second, it wasn't until after he started to control the sex lives of his cult members that Charles Manson was able to get them to kill for him. Think about that concept while comparing it to the Watchtower. Third, it looks like Giordano has given you a good start, but please study the science of sex. Although there is a wide sexual spectrum among all creatures, masturbation is a common practice. Fourth, determine whether or not you are really addicted to porn. While addiction is a complex subject, generally a practice is not an addiction unless it disrupts your daily life. Study up on addiction, and/or see a therapist to see if it's a big a problem as you think it is.

  The world is your oyster. You are free to determine what your actions will be and how you live your life. It can be scary, but it's part of growing up and reaching emotional maturity.
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  My birthday

  by Chariklo in

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  today i am celebrating my first birthday after dutifully refusing to observe birthdays, thanks to the jehovah's witnesses.

  not for as many years compared with most of you, but enough, and worst of all was that i dutifully refused even to celebrate my grandchildren's birthdays.

  that hurt me far more than them.

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  jamiebowers

  Happy Birthday!!!!!!!!!!!!
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  Bit of Good News

  by LouBelle in

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  some of you know i've been down in the dark dumps.

  i haven't had employment for 10 months now.

  there is a bit of light at the end of the tunnel.

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  jamiebowers

  Congrats and good luck!!!!!!!!!!
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  Mrs Punk left the family!

  by punkofnice in

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  it's nearly 2 months now but mrs punk finally left myself (mentally diseased apostate tm) with my 2 non kingdum hell attending boys.. she left when my jw daughter moved out and they moved in together.

  i don't think it'll be long before my daughter gets sick of her mum but there you go!!.

  i received a call from mrs punk to say: 'i didn't leave you because of the religion!'.

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  Sadly this hit the boys very badly. To be abandoned by their mother!!!

  I'm sorry if this sounds cruel, but your boys being away from their mother's unneccessary Watchtower restrictions will eventually do them a world of good. It will give them time to formulate their own world views, and eventually they'll know how to establish a relationship with proper boundaries with her.
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  This was just on channel 4 in the UK

  by Mickey mouse in

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  http://www.4thought.tv/themes/what-happens-when-you-leave-your-religion/rachel-underhill?autoplay=true.

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  jamiebowers

  Was she leaving a jw husband at the same time she was leaving the Watchtower? If so, two birds, one stone.
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  Six more days until Walking Dead!!!

  by keyser soze in

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  who else is excited?

  flat-out the best show on television.

  last season hit a lull in the middle, but ended with a bang imo..

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  My stepson got me hooked on the Walking Dead. It's weird that I never liked Science Fiction/Horror until middle age. I still have to turn my head for gross scenes though.
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  AHS Season 2! Lets get commited!

  by grumblecakes in

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  ooooooooooh!

  who's with me??!?!?.

  http://www.ahsasylum.com/.

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  jamiebowers

  Clickable:

  http://www.ahsasylum.com/

  Can't wait!
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  Ladies: A Purse Question

  by Lady Lee in

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  what makes a perfect purse for you?.

  color?

  size?interior or exterior pockets?zippered top or sections?long straps or short?material it is made from?

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  jamiebowers

  color? tan for spring, summer and fall and black for winter, (to match my shoes and boots)
  size? medium (big enough to accomodate a rather large Prada wallet)
  interior or exterior pockets? interior pockets to avoid smaller items rattling around, and exterior pockets for cell phone and cigarettes
  zippered top or sections? zippered top to avoid spills
  long straps or short? long straps to keep hands free
  material it is made from? leather; real or fake, material It doesn't matter to me, as long as it's sturdy.
  slouchy or sits straight? It doesn't matter, but I happen to have two slouchy ones now.
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  its finally here!!!!

  by grumblecakes in

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  im spending this morning drinking coffee and assembling/decorating my halloween tree!!!!!

  (actually, imma call it a "decemberween tree" because i plan on leaving it up all the way thru new years.

  kill two holidays with one stone).

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  So far the only decoration we've done for Halloween is a dummy. My husband took an old pair of jeans and work shirt and stuffed them with leaves. The ends of the sleeves go into a pair of work gloves, and the pant legs go into an old pair of work boots. The head is a basketball wrapped in black electrical tape, and the face is drawn with white auto body touch up paint. He's perched on a lawn chair at the front of our house. For some reason kids find it fascinating and are usually more interested in it than candy.

  This year we're also going to cut different shaped eyes into toilet paper rolls and insert glow sticks to put in the bush and trees in our yard. I found the idea on Facebook, and it really looks creepy! We usually have about 500 kids for trick or treat, because the Kiwanis Club has a cake walk afterwards. We may not have as many this year, because it is going to be held on a different day.