Happy birthday, Happy Anniversary and congratulation!
nj
being a jw that had never celebrated a birthday i thought i would get around the system and get married on my birthday.
today i turn 38 and celebrate my 10th anniversary.
to top it all off, in a few days my wife and i will be having an ultrasound and finding out the sex of my first baby.
Happy birthday, Happy Anniversary and congratulation!
nj
i don't have much time to post as i'm headed back to the hospital, but my father collapsed this morning and had to be rushed to the hospital.
in a nutshell: he needs a blood transfusion as his hemoglobin is dropping (bleeding internally), but thanks to this fucking cult, that's not an option...........he'll accept the fractions but those bastards from the blood liaison committee have already shown up to ensure he doesn't cave............... for those of you who still believe, i'm asking you to say a prayer for my dad........and if anyone from crooklyn is reading this: you better hope my father doesn't die due to your fucked up rules, .
Mary,
I'm so happy you were there to say OK, while the A$$holes were out for coffee Hopefully now that the bleed has been cauterized his Hgb will come up with time. You are still in my thoughts. Try to get some rest, even if it's sitting in a chair. He needs you to be strong and without rest and food you won't be able to take care of him and you mom!
Love, hugs and support
nj
at least mine don't anyway.. ive been thinking of there behaviour towards me for the last few weeks, and im just so over them being my parents.
when mike and i went to the hosp on wed night after my nan had passed away, i tried to comfort my mum, she hardly wanted me to touch her.
i didnt even look at my dad for the first half n hour we were there.
((((((((((((((((((((((ES)))))))))))))))))))))
I'm sorry your parents are acting like this! It breaks my heart to know you are going thru this. I had the same idea as Anghard - put your own notice in the paper acknowledging your nana from your family (you, hubby and kids).
Unfortunately this cult robs us of our childhood and loving parents! I'm sorry my heart breaks for you
nj
once again i have been selected as the "chosen channel" of commnuication by an paranoid elder apostate in waiting to spread this divinely inspired information: .
bfd.
a recent letter to all traveling overseers and bodies of elders in the u.s. contains an interesting "change in policy".
Male Chauvinist B@$%@&$$
nj
first i'll blame the fact that growing up as a witness, it was hard flirting with girls.
most of my younger days were spent at congregation gatherings, and it was hard trying to go up and talk to the girls.
both parents had to know about it, and it was quite a serious issue.
You can't make love if you are not in love with the person. There is a big difference between "making love" and having sex. I don't have a problem with just having sex (if you are not in a committed relationship). But I do suggest you be yourself, get to know her (you know couple dates) have some fun and let things happen naturally.
When you fall in love and have a committed relationship sex is a whole other ball game! Much more intense.
Just my 2cents!
nj
are there still some of those jw qualities than rear its ugly head once in a while??
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Absolutely NOT!!!! But I can usually tell that someone is a JW before they say a word, just that arrogant, I know it all and you are dirt kinda vibe they give off!
nj
i am getting to wonder what the point of life is anyway.
are we just a product of evolution with the sole purpose of survival?
i feel so confused and anxious right now.
((((((((((((((((((((((Maddie)))))))))))))))))))) Hang in there hun, it will get better. Then you just be a regular old nut like the rest of us!
nj
here's a new topic.
tell us in what ways you were taken advantage of during your stint within the borg.. me?
i had sisters involved in these residual income companies (e.g.
Shaklee - OMG! When I was a kid my parents got into this get rich quick scam and ended up with a basement full of shaklee crap. They also went to see some quack in NC that claimed he could look in their eyes and dx all ailment they would eventually come down with. Too bad he didn't see the stroke or heart disease my dad ended up with or the embolism my mom eventually had. He even had them taking garlic enemas twice a day! WTF??? That is alone with a boatload of vitamins that he distributed, what a bunch of bull s$%(
Needless to say mom and dad lost money we didn't have in the first place and ended up with a boatload of stuff no body wanted!
nj
got to address the balance with the girlie make up thread so here goes.
my first sports love is rugby union - my team is the london wasps.
football team (soccer) is millwall.. clam .
My favorite sport is football and the Giants are my favorite team
nj
Edited to add: It takes me 20 minutes to get ready for work in the morning, If I'm going out for an evening with the hubby 30
there would never be a good time to have this conversation.
quite different from most people raised a witness, i have very few horror stories about my upbringing.
my family was just a family, my mom and dad fought and argued, my siblings and i misbehaved and got in trouble.. .
((((((((((((((((((((Parp)))))))))))))))))))))))
nj