OMG!
This bunk!
I had almost forgotten the joy!
As a youth, I saw plenty of sweet little things 'in the lord' who turned up their pretty lil noses at me and my potential in the troof. As a socially stunted dub, my prospects outside the troof weren't exactly stellar either. I finally wound up with the first worldly gal willing to give me any and brought her into bondage to the WTS.
I knew a fellow, we'll call him 'Bubba' who lived with his mother. When girls would call, especially worldly girls, she would screech 'Bubba isn't allowed to talk to girls!' into the phone. She used to warn all the congregation girls off because he was 'no good.'
Eventually an older sister took an interest, she was coming 'round with pies and cookies and such, but being a clueless dub, he totally missed the intent. He's like 'hey, free pie, sweet!'
Finally his mom clued him in and he just about gave back every bite. It was almost like his mom was going to 'give' him to this lady.
He eventually wound up with the first gal willing to give him any cuz he knocked her up almost first try.
Ironically, she left me for him.
no, seriously.
My own sister, we'll call her 'self-rightious little bitch' or SRLB for short spent some time engaged to one of the few prospects that there were, but got into some trouble doing stuff they shouldn't and that went south.
So she figured, 'hey, why don't I try north?' and imported a canuck.
I think she's got regrets, he's kinda dull and easily lead. She doesnt give him a very long leash.
I think it's pretty sick that the factor that makes one 'marriagable' in the troof is hoe 'theocratic' they are, and that has little to do with what kind of mate they will be. It has more to do with them likely staying in for the long haul. It doesnt matter if you're miserable with your mate so long as you both stay in.
Bleh, a pox on them.
Roller