It is like I feel free of them and credit alot of that to this site and people...who are still hiding from them...and that has me concerned that perhaps I misunderstood or am too aggressive with my questions.....
Does that make sense?
I can see where you are coming from and good on you for not being afraid of them. I admire you. I don't think you have misunderstood or are too aggressive in any way. I'm in a different location so I can't see the dubs that I was associated with. I hope if I ever do that I can be just like you and get that look of fear when I ask the questions they cannot answer.
Good on you.