Pedophiles don’t choose
their sexual orientation in the same way LGBTQ+ don’t choose theirs. The
difference however is that pedophiles cannot act on their desires.
A doctor in Quebec reported
on radio that for every pedophiles that acted on their desires, there were 10
more that didn’t.
While I understand the
desire for capital punishment on those who act on their desires, I believe that
the others need help, they need to be understood and have the support of their
friends and families.
For instance, many people
know someone who quit drinking all together as they have a problem with alcohol.
You won’t offer alcohol to them and perhaps won’t even drink in their presence!
The same goes with pedophiles. If Uncle Johnny is a pedophiles, I’ll make sure
not to leave him alone with the kids and won’t create scenarios that will make
it difficult for him.
We need to work on
prevention, accepting them for who they are. This will empower them to seek the
help they need, including therapies and, perhaps, even voluntary chemical castration.
In essence, it is not by
calling these people out as monsters that we will reduce the occurrence of the
crime.