...but the POOP!!! Where's the POOP??? I thought you were going to scoop some up and bring it home in a baggie!
Posts by AnneB
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45Long Awaited Bigfoot Print Photograph ! Victory- Mr. Flipper & Son's trip !
by flipper infinally figured out at least how to get the picture on a thread !
i feel like i've won the world series or something !
anyway, this is the footprint my son and his girlfriend saw a month ago where my son and i backpacked this weekend .
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So who else chose not to respond to Journey-on's "not respond" post?
by sir82 insign in here!.
sorry, couldn't resist....
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AnneB
I choose not to respond to your post asking who chose not to respond to the other "not respond" post.....
but instead of starting a separate thread I thought I thought it better not to respond right here.
If you prefer that I not respond on a separate thread please let me know.
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The best revenge
by Junction-Guy inso are you happier outside the jw's than inside?.
do you like having freedom, or are circumstances too overwhelming to appreciate it now?
is happiness in small things possible, even when we're still in the process of "getting it all together"?
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AnneB
Junction-Guy said:
"I want to be happy like I was at one time."
I think he means that there was a time when he trusted without even thinking about it, when he thought that there were people who had his good at heart just the same as he had their good in his heart. When life is like that you wake up every day with a feeling of security, not because of your financial situation or your job skills, but because you are part of an invisible supportive network made up of love. When life is like that you can get through almost anything. If that feeling is ripped away it leaves you so torn apart that you don't know if you can pull yourself back together or not, or if you should even try since what you thought you had isn't there now.
I don't want to put words in his mouth but that's my take on what he's trying to say.
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AnneB
Hold On Tight To Your Dream
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A question from my wife: OTWO, what do you think about women on the Pulpit?
by OnTheWayOut inout of the blue, my wife asks: what do you think about women on the pulpit?.
otwo: why?
(silly little paranoid me.
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AnneB
OTWO: Well, everything about headship in the Bible seems to stem from Eve being deceived,
but Adam was not deceived. That seems kind of silly. She was tricked by a powerful
spirit-being, but he deliberately broke God's commandment, so he's to be the head of
the family, and men are to be the leaders in religious matters.Eve made a mistake and did "wrong".
Adam made a calculated decision to do "wrong".
Afterward, Adam got put in charge? Hmmmmmm....
Maybe women in the pulpit isn't so bad!
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For all you bird lovers
by startingover inhttp://birdloversonly.blogspot.com/2007/09/may-i-have-this-dance.html
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AnneB
Unbelievable! (But I just saw it!)
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Help needed desperately !!!!!
by confused and lost inhi,i have just registered here because i need someone to talk to in a way that wont end me up before a jc.i have been reading a lot of stuff recently about the wts being false prophets and the like.i also hate the fact that there are so called "spiritual" men out there who abuse their positions to molest children.i have been a witness now for 20yrs but instead of feeling spiritually alive i feel totally and utterly confused.i do not know which way to turn.anyone out there who feels the same ?
share your thoughts with me ..please and help me unburden myself to someone.
thanks for reading.
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AnneB
If you are concerned about revealing your identity through your posts try just asking "doctrinal" type questions as a start.
If something has happened to you or to someone you know you might find assistance at http://silentlambs.org/
Hope this helps.
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What was WTBTS giving as counsel to parents with disabled children in 60's?
by sf inmy search and re-search is to know this issue fully and gain all insight as to what parents of disabled children were being told when it came to any further treatment and/ or prognosis; surgery, therapy, medication and such.. i will, of course, look at wt official site to see what is there.
yet, i'm hoping i get everything i need, right here, with those that know what was being taught on this issue in the 60's and 70's up until now.. thank you.. skally.
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AnneB
The first thing I noticed when I came into association was how few infirm and/or disabled there were at the Kingdom Hall. After a while it dawned on me that WT is a "healthy" person's organization; if you can't preach you can't be considered a member. That leaves out the unwell, the desabled (both physically and mentally), those going through any kind of hardship, etc. This was in the early 1970's.
As far as literature on the topic, I remember an article in the early 1980's on when to pull the plug on a severely ill person. The reasoning was along the line of would they have a full life if they were to live, balancing the costs of care with other responsibilities. I was shocked that WT took such a cold view!
In the mid- to late 1970's there was an article, I think in Awake!, about children with learning disabilities. I don't think it was an "experience" article, but there were short "experiences" in it. One mentioned discipline. When their child misbehaved the parents were counseled to use corporal punishment (spanking). The parent was quoted as saying the little mite got so many spankings before they realized it was due to a condition. I think the condition was Attention Deficit Disorder. I remember the article because I had a young son at the time who didn't fit the JW mold. The woman who was studying with me was all over me to beat him, to spank him for his disobedience and I wouldn't. I didn't see anything wrong with his behavior (and I still don't, looking back). Then I read that article and felt it was some sort of vindication although one had to claim disability as a reason.
There have been a couple of life experience articles over the years (I stopped reading in the early 1990's for the most part) of families with disabled children. In many cases the families "put the children away", sent them to residential facilities and this was written with a sense of approval as it freed the family members for other "responsibilities". There was even the story of an elder in such a facility and about all the good he was able to accomplish even though the facility was so bad that it was eventually shut down by the state health officials.
WT seems very big on medicating children with disabilities. Other than the "be sure to say hello to the people in wheelchairs" variety it always seemed to me that WT either wants a person healthy or doped into submission. The same holds true for women experiencing physical difficulties and people on overload,and lately even people deemed in danger of leaving the organization; get them on medication (even against their will) and threaten them with disfellowshipping if they refuse to cooperate. This has been the course even up to the present; I know of half a dozen cases in the last 5 years where the elders said meds or DF'd, not all in the same congregation, not even in the same state (USA). -
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was there a matchmaker in your congo?
by karter inwe had one in a neighbouring congo.. she would invite all the young ones out to ride her horses .. she invited me over and told me there will be this gorges sister there ,all week i'm looking forward to this till i got there....... lets just say she was a nutritional overachiever with highly questionable mental health the horses face and hers had more than a little in common.. not to be out done she invited me and my mate a wile later on the same pretext this time there was a gorges sister there i fell for her straight .
away sad to say she didnt like me she fell for my mate .. lifes a bitch sometimes.
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AnneB
There was a matchmaker in a southern California congregation who professed to be of the annointed. She was a magnet for the less stable elements of the congregation. She matched them up by saying that their mission in the New Order would be to colonize other planets.
Sadly, a few marriages did take place due to her matchmaking. Most of them collapsed within weeks leaving the congregation to deal with the separations, accusations, and other headaches. Sometimes one of the persons involved would move in with the matchmaker then there would be even more gossip.
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You can't blame The Truth anymore.
by wanderlustguy insomeone related a story to me a couple of months ago over the last few days it sunk in.
there was a time it was so easy for me to get mad and angry and virtually meditate on how the organization systematically stripped me and so many of my loved ones of their lifethe life that could have been.
real love was replaced with a recipe of what love is, putting god first and then defining what the perception of god was supposed to be, to include a group of men directed by a corporation that decides who we can or cannot speak to, as well as who we can or cannot love in the common sense of the word.
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AnneB
if someone says something that catches my eye ...
That statement caught my eye so here's my input: Eccl. 3:6.
The son finally gave up hope that his father would cooperate in straightening out (to the extent possible) the past or in helping him come to terms with what had happened. The son was right to give up hope and to move on, the father's words left little doubt that he was unwilling to explain or make amends. It's sad when things work out this way but it happens; at least now the son is standing on solid ground.
Earlier this week I read this somewhere: "Don't worry about the people in your past, there's a reason why they didn't make it into your future." When it's family it really hurts but the statement still makes sense.
.02 from AnneB