if it was well known in the congregation and some elders knew also , if she had the affair before she got baptised with a disfellowshipped man would she not have to tell her husband before she got baptised ?
looloo
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a sister had an affair while married
by looloo inif it was well known in the congregation and some elders knew also , if she had the affair before she got baptised with a disfellowshipped man would she not have to tell her husband before she got baptised ?
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Hi from a new member in North Florida!
by BinaryThaumaturgy ini've been a lurker on the forum for a while and wanted to finally register and post something.
i'm 23 years old, and was born and raised a jw.
i've been out "officially" now for about a year, although i've really been out since i was 16.
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looloo
welcome newbie in florida , i went to west palm beach once , best hol i ver had ! there are good and bad in this old world just like in the kingdom hall , take things really slow , a lot of disfellowshippd i know did the rebelling bit that they should have done in their teen years to late when they escaped the cult and went totally off the rails , and you can still lead a moral life and not be a dub despite what you have been programmed to think
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Came to this site to research.. J.W
by cluless ini came to this site initially to research about jehovahs witnesses.and oboy what i learnt.
goodbye to that believe system.. but was it really necessary that i also now no longer see the bible as the word of god ?..and am turning athiest...?.
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looloo
i always had a faith in god , even though my parents were not religious , then i met the dubs and felt it was based more on pleasing people ie elders and keeping up appearences than god , when i left i go my faith back !
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apostates at assemblys
by looloo ini was told not to even look at them when i studied, but i did not buy the satan stuff about them and said well what have the watchtower got to worry about if they have the truth and no skeletons in the closet ?
i was quite tempted to speak to them and felt rude and judgemental , what did you used to think about them when you were dubs in the trufff ?
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looloo
when i was a study me and apioneer were counting the asleep people to entertain ourselves in a dull talk lol
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whats it like going on the "work" ministery
by looloo ina lot of ex dubs i know have said they did not enjoy it at all , and i certainly got the impression it was more of a duty than a privelidge by ones who are still in it , they even asked if they could use me to get thier time in !!!
at work .
i used to think to myself that at least the born agains look as though they actually enjoy worshipping god considering they are serving satan !!!!!!
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looloo
a lot of ex dubs i know have said they did not enjoy it at all , and i certainly got the impression it was more of a duty than a privelidge by ones who are still in it , they even asked if they could use me to get thier time in !!! at work . i used to think to myself that at least the born agains look as though they actually enjoy worshipping god considering they are serving satan !!!!!! perhaps its the other way around
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apostates at assemblys
by looloo ini was told not to even look at them when i studied, but i did not buy the satan stuff about them and said well what have the watchtower got to worry about if they have the truth and no skeletons in the closet ?
i was quite tempted to speak to them and felt rude and judgemental , what did you used to think about them when you were dubs in the trufff ?
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looloo
i was told not to even look at them when i studied, but i did not buy the satan stuff about them and said well what have the watchtower got to worry about if they have the truth and no skeletons in the closet ? i was quite tempted to speak to them and felt rude and judgemental , what did you used to think about them when you were dubs in the trufff ?
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apostates outside assemblys ,i was told not to even look, did any of you
by looloo inever want to speak to them , i was only a study but i thought it very odd and judgemental to not even look at them and i used to think what are they so scared of if they have the truth , i did not buy the satan stuff about them at all , cult , was what sprung to mind and started my doubts
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looloo
ever want to speak to them , i was only a study but i thought it very odd and judgemental to not even look at them and i used to think what are they so scared of if they have the truth , i did not buy the satan stuff about them at all , cult , was what sprung to mind and started my doubts
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did anyone on here ever have a paedophile in thier congregation?
by looloo inif so, did it bother you that he had been reprooved and forgiven rather than reported to the police?
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looloo
how on earth can bringing reproach on the orgs name be a reason not to protect children from abuse ? if they reported every case of child abuse reported to the police they would have a much better reputation among worldly people aswell as thier own members , but then i suppose they would not be able to boast to eachother about how differnt thier org is to theo other wicked religions in the world , i suppose thats why they have to keep a lid on the problem to stop dubs leaving in thier thousands and keep filling thier heads with those fake "im so happy since i became a witness" stories in the watchtower !!!
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did anyone on here ever have a paedophile in thier congregation?
by looloo inif so, did it bother you that he had been reprooved and forgiven rather than reported to the police?
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looloo
i also know another lady in a different cong that knew an elder was dodgy but nobody would listen to her , he was eventually caught in a very dodgy situation with his 3 year old neice , and believe it or not he was not dissfellowshipped or reported to the police but the childs mother was for gossipping !!!!!there is much more to this ladys sad story but i dont feel its my place to repeat it , it is so sad and unfair
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Newbies - Tell Us Your Stories Getting out of the Witnesses
by flipper inhello newbies and others.
it is really exciting to see so many joining on board here looking for support !
perhaps some of us who have been there done that can give you some tips to make life a bit easier exiting the mind control cult, jehovah's witnesses .
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looloo
flipper , sorry i did not make my post clear , i was not sexually abused by the elder as i was a grown woman in her 20s at the time , it was an ex min servant that sexually abused my child , i actually felt sorry for the elder that told me how he felt about me as i think he felt really guilty , and he never touched me . and the newbie whos husband thinks she should get over it , my husband is the same about me coming on this site and he was brought up in the truffff so if he dosnt understand who would ???