Yes,in my experience,being a JW does give you the right to be just plain rude.They do make their own rules and they hardly ever do the christian thing.My whole family was treated shitty by the JWs when my Dad died and none of us was even Df'd or Da'd.My brother's Baptist church really showed them up bad at that time.Sorry A-HOLES didn't even bother to stop by the funeral home to pay respects.HOW CHRISTIAN IS THAT?Thanks to them,my whole family has drifted.I'm so sorry about what happened to your Dad.I can certainly understand that they contributed to his depression.As far as your family goes,as long as any of them are still in it,be prepared to be hurt by them.Sad but true.