its shameful but if you have not left the organization (as i have not) you have no choice but to Shun. I have a very good friend that has been DF'ed and i would love to talk to him as i no longer believe this organization, but i suppose the saying blood is thicker than water comes to mind. I love my family we have been through alot together and i can't give them up, if i speak to him and someoone finds out, i will end up with the same treatment as him. But the good news is i am in the process of leaving i have collected alot of information together explaining why i think this organization is not of God and giving evidence for it, i want them to KNOW exactly why i have left and know that it was for a good reason. I am just not sure when i will do it.
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