Welcome, sweetrose! Yeah, it's hard, especially when you have kids. Sounds like you really have principles that you are living by for the sake of your son. Good for you.
Cadellin
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New to this forum and few thoughts.
by sweetrose74 inwell i have not been a part of the jws for over 12 years.
i was born and raised one.
indoctrincated from birth you can say.
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On Human Evolution
by TD init's a subject that comes up fairly often here (understandably) and very strong opinions are expressed.
much of the discussion seems to be counterproductive.. i'd like to propose a different approach.
we all know what each other's conclusions are (or at least we should by now).
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Cadellin
When I was working on my undergrad degree, I took a course in physical anthropology, the lab of which was osteology (nothing but old bones). I remember a similar question came up and the professor said that morphological differences b/w the australopithecines and H. habilis were insignificant. The reason for the taxonomic difference was the presence of stone tools at habilis sites and lack of them at australopithecine sites. Now it's not so cut-and-dried as it sounds, but it speaks to the point made by another poster that evolution isnt black and white but rather undulating shades of beige and grey. Which is exactly what you'd expect from a process that tinkers, gerry-rigs, makes-do, and sometimes transitions slowly (and sometimes leaps). Creation, by contrast, coming from a perfect God Designer, predicts that things SHOULD be cut-and-dry, easily demarcated, discrete entities or kinds and no relation whatsoever b/w--uh, "basic kinds," whatever that is.
One of the key differences between (modern) ape and human lineages, however, is bipedalism, indicated by the location of the foramen magnum, or the big hole in the skull where the spine engages. Apes' are located toward the back of the skull while hominids (the human line) are directly anterior. It's worth noting that all the skulls in TD's line-up have an anterior foramen magnum, meaning that they are all hominids, though not necessarily directly antecedent to modern humans.
Complicated? You bet. That's why the strawman arguments of creationists are so insidious, and why there's so much misunderstanding, which is capitalized on by creationists like the WT. I sat through the WT this past Sunday and honest to God, lost a half-dozen IQ points. I kept looking around, thinking to myself, "C'mon, folks, is there even a teaspons of critical thinking being applied anywhere in the room?"
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New Believers, Studying.
by cupcakekourtney88 inhey y'all!
my name is kourtney and i am new to this form and jehovah witnesses.
right now i am studying the book "what does the bible really teach".
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Welcome, Cupcake: You sound like a good kid. Please ignore any rudeness you might have perceived and instead, spend some time reading some of the life stories of posters. They can be enlightening.
Either way, whatever you decide (or not), you are very welcome here! Please keep us posted as your study progresses.
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Hi, new to this forum. Figured I'd let everyone know about my story before I got involved.
by JonathanH inif you just want the juicy details where i leave, i'll make disclaimer where it begins, if you just want to know what happened with the elders and organization after i realized it wasn't true, i'll mark that seperately.
we didn't do jack shit in service, or in the congregation.
maybe this was how jehovah came about?
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Jonathon: Wow, what a story. You are yet more evidence of the brain drain that the WT is experiencing.
Love your observation: I will do my damnedest to be the exemplary of the virtues they value, but do not understand
You are clearly a gifted writer and thinker. Like so many have already said, my heart goes out to both your wife for her emotional strain and your sister. It's really horrid how misogyny masquerades as "loving Biblical counsel."
Also, congrats for your intentions to pursue higher education. That's the other common denominator among so many of us who leave the Borg--we make up our lack of formal education as quickly as we can. I'm just finishing a M.A. and don't regret one minute.
Please, keep us posted!
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I'm a Mess
by headisspinning ini am an emotional mess.. yesterday, i was so firm.
today i feel like crying.
it was a lovely, sunny day here.
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Headspinning, hope you are doing okay. You've been given some really good advice here, esp. by jgnat and others. Your emotional response is totally NORMAL for someone who is breaking ties with a high-control religion. Try and develop a measure of emotional distance from the idea of the "the Truth." When I was waking up, I had to tamp down my emotions and focus on the rationality of my discoveries. For me, abundant research into evolution, radiometric dating and related topics was helpful. As well, get yourself involved with non-JW people, even if it means volunteering an afternoon a week at a food bank or whatever. If you work f-t (sorry, I don't remember your story), then go out to lunch w/friends from work, or for a drink after work.
As far as guilt goes, when that starts welling up in me (and it will, for a while), I give myself a choice: I can go back to knocking on doors and preaching that the Bible is inerrant, that paradise will be here "soon," etc., knowing full well that it's not true. Or I can be honest and stand to look at myself in the mirror every day.
For me, it's an easy choice and gets easier with the passage of time. That's the other thng you need to allow yourself. Time is, indeed, a great healer.
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Water Canopy? Huh?
by Mr. Falcon in*** w80 11/15 p. 23 par.
4 jehovah of armies to the rescue!
the fact that today we do not have a vast water canopy suspended high up in space and all around our globe and thus blocking direct sunlight, moonlight and starlight is because jehovah saw what was going on down here upon his terrestrial footstool and took action.
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Great thread. Yes, its mind boggling that the March 2011 WT has a reference to the water canopy. So that old canard is alive and well in JWland. What's really odd is that the Genesis account indicates that moon and stars were visible by Day 4, bright enough to serve as "luminaries" according to the NWT. So how could starlight penetrate a water canopy that held enough water to flood the earth? When it's getting ready to rain today, the cloud cover is pretty dense and you don't even see the sun, much less stars. So it makes no sense whatsoever.
Oh, wait--the Flood story is a redaction of earlier Ugaritic and Babylonian myths! Its the imposition of a rationalistic framework onto what is clearly myth that makes no sense!
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Hey POY, welcome! This site is a great resource for informing yourself about "the truth," and guess what--we're not all as scary as they say. (Only some of us are, LOL) Joking aside, you're a young guy and time is on your side. Take your time, keep your grades up at school and plan to further your education doing something you care deeply about.
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my story....
by losecontrol inwell i am new to this, and i must admit that at first i was very opposed to this site.
i grew up being a witness and was warned about looking into apostate things, which is exactly what this site would be that they are referring to.
i always tried to live my life the best that i could under the societys control, and never really got to have any life experiance at all.
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Cadellin
Welcome. Information is your (and your wife's) most important tool/resource/weapon/comfort at this point. Learn all you can about the "truth" about the "truth."
GOD, I LOVE PARAGRAPHS!
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New Light !
by mann377 inhttp://news.discovery.com/history/god-wife-yahweh-asherah-110318.html.
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evidently jehovah had a wife according to the above article..
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Cadellin
Mark Smith's (authoritative, I think) The Early History of God describes the Asherah-Yahweh-El as being located in Ugaritic tradition and migrating into Hebrew religion before the time of the judges. However, although there are somewhat oblique references to Asherah as goddess here and there in scripture (he references Gen 49:25 where the epithet blessing "Breasts-and-Womb" is a title applied to Asherah in extra-biblical ANE texts, and presented contextually in Genesis along with royal titles for Yahweh), his conclusion is that, according to biblical records and "inscriptional material" (I'm not sure what that would be, maybe archaelogical finds? Leolaia I'm not (but I wish I was )) "the explicit cult of the goddess did not endure" in Israel (19).
I haven't read the news article; I suppose I should if it sheds more recent light on this.
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Assembly/Convention Accounting
by dontplaceliterature injust having had my circuit assembly recently, i felt that the expenses in a watchtower-owned building seemed extremely over-inflated.
over $9000 for two days.
there were approximately 750-800 in attendance each day.
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Family members just went to their CA at the Surrey, BC, Canada assembly hall. It was renovated a few years ago, but it's not a new building by any means. There are 2 kh in it as well (I think) and the assembly hall itself is used almost year round. The announced expenses for the 2-day CA (which would have had around 1,000 in attendance, maybe a bit less) were--get this--$14,000. That was what was announced.