I agree Scary.
I was actually shocked that they were trying to make him severe his relationship with her and never speak to her again. It would make sense according to their doctrine if she was NOT pregnant. I guess they forgot the scripture about those who don't provide for their own are worse than a man without faith. If she was pregnant with his child and wanted to get married, I would have thought their counsel would be he needs to man up and be ready to take care of the child. He can marry her as well, but life may be a struggle since they are not on the same level in regards to religion.
Heartless cult.