Posts by ABibleStudent

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Appeal Against Elders Decision... Can Anyone Advise..

by Almond in

i meet a 6 years baptised jw girl.

we planned to marry here in philippines ( no divorce here }.

judge told me he can do the marriage so we livived together to be married.

ABibleStudent

Welcome Almond, Are you a JW? Does your GF love you more than the WTBTS?

Instead of you and your GF being victimized by the WTBTS, do the following:

Make your plan to slowly (or quickly) fade from the WTBTS. If your GF is a "Spiritually Strong" (non-thinking) JW, ask yourself if you want to be in a ménage à trois relationship with your GF's cult and authentic personas and you? Being married is difficult enough, but why enter a relationship that is guaranteed to be filled with unneccessary drama because your GF loves the WTBTS more than you?
Independently and thoroughly research the WTBTS. Visit reputable websites like www.jwfacts.com, www.freedomofmind.com, www.watchtowerdocuments.com, www.jwsurvey.org, and www.freeminds2.org.
Independently and thoroughly research dangerous cults, BITE control, and "undue influence". Instead of reading information by the WTBTS about cults, read information by cult-exit counselors like Steve Hassan's books (i.e., "Combatting Cult Mind Control", "Releasing the Bonds: Empowering People to Think for Themselves", and (his latest book) "Freedom of Mind: Helping Loved Ones Leave Controlling People, Cults and Beliefs"), visiting this website www.freedomofmind.com, and watching his FREE videos on his website like Strategic Interactive Approach explained 2003 (1:23:23).
Vent your frustrations abou the WTBTS on JWN as much as possible to reduce the possibility of making your GF suspicious about your feelings and to learn how to help your GF to critically think for herself.
Warning: DO NOT show your GF information about TTATT and BITE control, ask her simple and innocent questions, and encourage her to do her own research. If you want to help your GF to critically think for herself, be patient and compassionate when you ask her simple questions to overcome the WTBTS's BITE control. Also, learn how to overcome WTBT's indoctrinated thought-stopping platitudes, so that you can strip away layers of the WTBTS's BITE control a little at a time.
Get more education/training so that you can qualify for a better paying career for your fiancial security and your family.
Do fun and entertaining activities where you will meet more non-JWs, who you share common interests. Life is short so enjoy it and live it, instead of being victimized by the WTBTS.

Peace be with you and eveyrone, who you love,

Robert

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i have gotten two memorial invites so far. Both are now safely in the trash

by monis1 in

jw
friends

i guess the co came by with a local elder.

funny thing is only my husband's name is on it.

we are both inactive, but the rumors are that i celebrate everything now (i do).

ABibleStudent

Welcome monis1, If your husband still thinks that the WTBTS has the truth, does your husband love you and your children more than the WTBTS?

If he loves you and your children more than the WTBTS, ask him what he thinks of Steve Hassan's video Strategic Interactive Approach explained 2003 (1:23:23). Steve Hassan is a reputable cult-exit counselor who has written "Combatting Cult Mind Control", "Releasing the Bonds: Empowering People to Think for Themselves", and (his latest book) "Freedom of Mind: Helping Loved Ones Leave Controlling People, Cults and Beliefs". Learning more about how the WTBTS uses BITE control techniques to victimize JWs may help your husband stop using thought-stopping platitudes like "The WTBTS still has the Truth."

Peace be with you and everyone, who you love,

Robert

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Translating JWFacts to Spanish... Update?

by ILoveTTATT in

jw
friends

as you all may know, it is an ongoing project to translate jwfacts to spanish.

given that there are more than 2 spanish-speaking jw's for every one that speaks english, it can be safely said that spanish is the #1 language in the jw world (even though everything is made originally in english).. the spanish-speaking jw's are harder to convince.

i attribute it almost 100% to socioeconomic factors.

ABibleStudent

BTTT

I wish I could translate from English to Spanish to help you. All I can do is offer you encouragement and praise for caring so much to help Spanish speaking JWs.

Have you asked Paul Grundy about advertising on JWfacts to recruit English to Spanish translators? If you could vete prospective translators and cordinate their work it might take less time. The main things are to have good quality control over the translations as well as greater transparency and accountability to differentiate JWfacts from the WTBTS. Something as simple as listing first names, last initials, and Province, Country of translators for different webpages could send a powerful message to readers.

Peace be with you and everyone, who you love,

Robert

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Advice, Opinions, Please!

by mellojello in

do any of you sometimes experience difficulty in shaking wt teachings?

like it intrudes in your daily life and thought and some things that may be alright, now you feel as if they're wrong or you plain just don't know.

i know the wt is a lie but i haven't lost my faith in god, i know he's there but it's hard knowing whats the right thing to do.

ABibleStudent

Hi mellojello, You are probably suffering from a form of PTSD, because of the WTBTS's BITE control. If you do not help yourself, time will help, venting on JWN will too, and talking with a cult-exit counselor may help you get through the process the quickest.

Have you considered talking with a cult-exit counselor like Steve Hassan, reading Steve Hassan's books (i.e., "Combatting Cult Mind Control", "Releasing the Bonds: Empowering People to Think for Themselves", and (his latest book) "Freedom of Mind: Helping Loved Ones Leave Controlling People, Cults and Beliefs"), visiting his website www.freedomofmind.com, and watching his FREE videos on his website like Strategic Interactive Approach explained 2003 (1:23:23)? It took years for the WTBTS to indoctrinate you with WTBTS phobias and it may take years to get rid of them.

Do independent research of the WTBTS as well as "undue influence" and critical thinking; make more non-JW friends; join reputable volunteer or community organizations, and gyms; and start viewing life as an adventure instead of dreary and dreaded experience to reach the WTBTS's Paradise.

Peace be with you and everyone, who you love,

Robert

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I'm postponing my JW elderette and her BS session again

by Faithful Witness in

i really do have more important things to do this week, so i am postponing my elderette again.

she has not yet contacted me for her "topic of discussion" for the week.

i know she wants time to prepare her speech and presentation.

ABibleStudent

Faithful Witness - Miss K seems like she is on-guard with me, and that she thinks I am going to ambush her with some "apostate" information or an article that she can't defend. She is even afraid to discuss WT publications with me. Last week, as she was leaving, she asked me to come up with a topic of discussion for our next meeting. When I asked if we could talk about a specific WT article that I found confusing, she said, "Well, if we do that, then you aren't really going to be learning what the BIBLE says..." It didn't really hit me, until hours later, that she had just admitted to me that the Watchtower magazine isn't teaching you what it says in the Bible.

Hi Faithful Witness, Miss K said a "DOOZY". LOL.

The battle between a JW's cult and authentic persona is amazing and you should be prepared to take advantage of those opportunities all the time with innocent and simple questions! JWs don't need to read non-WTBTS approved information to have doubts about the WTBTS. They just need to hear their own contradictions by you repeating what they said and asking them why they feel that way or did you correctly hear what they said. Let them know that what they tell you privately is between you and them and no body else.

Peace be with you and everyone, who you love,

Robert

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Star Trails

by ILoveTTATT in

one of the things that i have only done once... but i would love to do again and again until i perfect the technique, is called star trails.. my camera is a canon 60d.

there is a way to "hack" the canon dslr's so that they get some amazing functionalities, such as taking a picture just by clapping (really cool for when you want to take a picture and no one is able to push the button) and taking pictures at certain intervals.. you can read more about this "hacking" on .

http://www.magiclantern.fm/.

ABibleStudent

Awesome pictures ILoveTTATT! I'm glad how you are achieving your full potential and learning discovering new interest and peace since learning TTATT.

Peace be with you and everyone, who you love,

Robert

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I'm postponing my JW elderette and her BS session again

by Faithful Witness in

i really do have more important things to do this week, so i am postponing my elderette again.

she has not yet contacted me for her "topic of discussion" for the week.

i know she wants time to prepare her speech and presentation.

ABibleStudent

You are gaining a lot of great experience Faithful Witness with your two elderettes so that you can eventually help your family to critically think for themselves. I'm proud of your progress and desire to help your JW family and other JWs to critically think for themselves.

Just remember:

That your emotional health and happiness, and your family's happiness and welfare come first!
Learn how to control your emotions and adapt your plan(s) while listening to your elderettes like Steve Hassan says in his video Strategic Interactive Approach explained 2003 (1:23:23) .
Learn how to listen compassionately to your elderettes' authentic personas, so that you can ask effective and simple questions to empower their authentic personas to critically think for themselves.
Learn how to overcome thought-stopping platitudes and confront JWs about using generalities by asking them simple questions so that they question their cult personas' persepective.
Relate your personal experience with your family to your elderettes and how you cannot understand how your sister treats you and your family and can say that she is a Chirstian, who follows the teachings and examples of Jesus Christ. Your opinions are valid. If your elderettes start talking down to you, try to get their authentic personas to see your prespective, ask them specific questions for them to justify their prespective using the teachings of Jesus Christ, and/or show them Steve Hassan's video How Big is the Phenomenon of Undue Influence? (2:01). It should be very difficult for your elderettes' authentic personas to justify prejudice and bigotry based on Christianity without bringing reproach on the WTBTS.
Learn how to turn their cult personas on and off.

Peace be with you and everyone, who you love,

Robert

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Studied with JW grandma for 3 years and went to meetings, I have now seen the light!

by yogosans14 in

im new here and im 17, going to turn 18 in 1 week.

i studied with my gradma the bible teach book and went to meeting with her and other relatives (considering most my relatives are jw except my parents) and i believe in all of it because i never read the bible for myself.

after reading the gospels i started noticing contradictions in the jw doctrine like when jesus said many would dine with the patriachs in the kingdom of heaven (yet only 144,000 jws can) which would seem odd considering the fact he adressed this to more then the apostles.

ABibleStudent

Welcome yogosans14 and thanks for sharing your insights. IMHO it is better to follow Jesus Christ's advice of following God's Greatist Commandments in Mt 22:37-40 to interpret the scriptures instead of using WTBTS propaganda. It is hard to follow an organization's doctrines when God's Greatist Commandment is to Love God with "ALL" your heart, mind, and soul. There is no room for blindly following an organization's doctrines or its leaders.

If most of your relatives are JWs, you are very lucky that your parents are not JWs. Why are your parents not JWs and why do they let your Grandmother take you to the meetings?

Although the WTBTS refers to itself as a religion, it is more of a printing, print distribution, and real estate holding corporation that uses BITE control techniques to victimize JWs just like the Pharises and Sadducees did to the Jews during the time of Jesus Christ. If you independently research the WTBTS's history through reputable websites like www.jwfacts.com, www.freedomofmind.com, www.watchtowerdocuments.com, www.jwsurvey.org, and www.freeminds2.org, you will be more shocked than what you learned by comparing WTBTS propaganda to the Bible.

If you want to learn more about how the WTBTS uses BITE control to victimize JWs, please watch the FREE videos The BITE Model (Behavior Information Thought Emotion) (5:03) and Strategic Interactive Approach explained 2003 (1:23:23) by Steve Hassan, a reputable cult-exit couselor.

I hope that you continue to vent about your WTBTS experiences on JWN instead of telling your JW relatives about what you learn, because it may adversely affect your relationships with them.

Peace be with you and everyone, who you love,

Robert

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When in Rome.....

by quellycatface in

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friends

hi there.. have finally taken the bull by the horns and booked a trip to rome.

always wanted to go.

great architecture, food and atmosphere.. of course, i have to do the vatican.after seeing it all in angels and demons, plus the sistine chapel etc..... has anyone else been to rome??

ABibleStudent

Congratulations quellycatface and ILoveTTATT on visiting Rome this year!

Rome has many historical sites to visit within the city and to the south such as Pompeii or to the east such as Villa d'Este adjacent to the town of Tivoli. The internet makes it very easy to plan a trip with websites like http://www.tripadvisor.com/Attractions-g187791-Activities-Rome_Lazio.html. I used Tripadvisor to create my iteneray of places of interest and places to eat when I bicycled from Paris, France to and through Normandy, France in 2012.

I have toured the Vatican and it has an immense collection of statues that were displayed like in a very large warehouse setting. Because there is so much to see, take take to relax and enjoy the culture. It was easy to walk around central Rome and/or use the buses/metro. I do not think that I would rent a car in Rome, because of traffic congestion and parking availability. I think it is better to schedule bus tours to outlying points of interest.

Of course, be careful to secure your valuables at all times from pick-pockets. While in Italy my friend was robbed on a train, because she left her camera and some money in a back-pack under her seat when we went to get something to eat.

Bon Voyage,

Robert

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My Update

by nolongerconfused in

hello friends..... i have posted off and on for maybe a year and half?...

just to update you guys on where i am.

writing this makes me feel better.. i was baptized when i was 9 years old along with the rest of my immediate family.

ABibleStudent

Thanks for sharing your experiences nolongerconfused.

Do you have a vision of what you want from a relationship? Do you want a healthy, loving partnership with someone with shared common interests, or a some type of co-dependent relationhsip, which I consider to be unhealthy - especially with a narcissist? The cult persona of a JW definately leans towards narcissism and highly-controlling.

I was married to a non-JW, who I feel had strong narcissist and controlling tendancies towards the end of our marriage. Before getting married I did not have a good vision of what qualities I wanted in a wife and my personality was not as confident and developed as I am now. After getting divorced, it was weird how it took about 4 years to get over my feelings for my ex-wife. Now I am so much happier. I cannot imagine still being married to her. She has only gotten more controlling and narcissistic towards her current husband according to my former step-son when he talks about her. I never ask about his mother, because I don't want to know.

Move on. Date women and learn from each relationship what you want in a relationship. It is a trail and error process that eventually helps you to learn and know what you want from a potential spouse.

Peace be with you and everyone, who you love,

Robert