Hello Lauren and Welcome !!
You sound like a very smart, confident, normal, and awesome young lady!
IMHO, I agree with you on the dumb down drugs...keep your mind clear.
As a Dad of three daughters...I pray your BF is a young man of integrity and will treat you right... and his family are good folk.
I hope your relationship with Mom will improve...there is always hope..just kill the cult with Love.
Peace and Strength in your journey of FREEDOM. -BH