Send a copy of this to the elders in the hall anonymously, and to HIM to let him know that YOU know. And say if THEY dont tell the congregation...you will.
LovesDubs
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Sexual Offender in my hall.
by PandaJ inso my wife calls me and says, "my mom told me there is a sexual offender in our hall, but she won't tell me who!".
i have a small child, so i obviously want to know.
her mom tells her a website where she can search for sexual offenders, www.criminalfiles.info.
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NEW LIGHT!!!!!!!!!
by minimus inwe heard new light this evening.
a local needs talk was given about how anyone that knows someone might be dating a non- witness and doesn't report it to the elders is actually hindering the free flow of jehovah's holy spirit.
yes, if the "sin" goes unreported, the whole congregation will be affected, just as in the case of achan and his family!
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Again...such crap. In my congregation there was a man who was highly respected as a VERY spiritual brother. He had a very sick wife who was studying. She got baptized in July and died that following December of a long existing heart ailment at age 43. On the anniversary of her death, my kids made cards for him thinking he would be remembering and be sad and a sister whispered to me not to do that because he had remarried!!!! I was like WHAT??? WHEN? She said a month after his wife DIED! And nobody but NOBODY knew about this but her because they were neighbors. The ELDERS ALL KNEW he had remarried this worldly woman and covered it UP for him and not only was he an MS he had full priviledges in the hall. I was SOOOOO pissed...he was always like "Wait on Jehovah! Trust in Jehovah!" with me! I called him up...something I wouldnt ordinarily do but I was going through the "Ive HAD it with this garbage!" period in my life. I said "You going to sit there and tell me there were no SISTERS available for you to marry?? When we have 5 sisters for every one brother in this organization?? How could you be such a hypocrite and HIDE it yet from everybody??" He was stunned that I had called at all let alone nailed him like that..and he said "well uh...I HAD to marry her or commit fornication!! and...the elders were GOING to tell people, and I AM starting to study with her at home and..." I said.."You know what..there is just NO excuse for this. You must have known this woman a long time before your wife even DIED to have married her less than a MONTH after your wifes death! You sat next to me in my OWN HOME and lied to me. And if you think Im going to KEEP your little dirty secret a secret Brother..you have another thing coming! So either YOU come clean with this congregation or its going to be out there for you to EXPLAIN!"
My husband told me later that this brother thought that he personally was responsible for stumbling me out of the truth. I let him think so too. ALL of them with their vile behavior are responsible!
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Shunned father's daughter dies
by Rado Vleugel inthe 17-year-old jehovah's witness daughter of shunned father died thursday of leukemia.
read this sad story and previous stories on http://www.watchtowerinformationservice.org/.
rado vleugeledited by - rado vleugel on 6 september 2002 1:55:36.
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LovesDubs
If a wife can sue her husbands lover for alienation of affection, why cant this father sue the WTS for alienation of affection ? Its THEIR FAULT that this poor daddy didnt get to see his little girl. There would be HELL TO PAY if this happened to me. I wonder if they will now not allow him to go to the funeral??
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Dream of Going Back
by professor ini awoke from sleep about a half hour ago from a dream in which i returned to the witnesses.
i had become so upset from losing my family and friends that i decided to return and seek reinstatement even though secretly in my heart i did not believe (i was trying to fool the elders).. i awoke from the dream with illusions of actually following through with this idea.
it took me about 5 minutes to arrive at reality.
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LovesDubs
I have JW dreams a lot...usually the people whom I had loved so much, the ones now shunning me, speak to me in my dreams but always are aloof, always are distant. They still are having the book study or the field service arrangements in my home too...but do not acknowledge me being there. Its WEIRD.
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Silentlambs are heard in Seattle
by Kenneson in.
"silentlambs' speak out about sex abuse".
http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/text/134530329_jehovah06.html
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LovesDubs
"We're not trying to say we handled everybody in the right way and our elders are all-knowing, all-perfect. But we say, if you take what our policy is for keeping our organization clean morally, it far outpaces anybody else's," spokesman J.R. Brown said.
What is THAT crap?? Is this some kind of Consumer Report thing where the church with the most SOLID DOTS is best??? If you have ANY kind of a problem with this JR BABY...FIX IT you MORON!! Quit blowin smoke up everybody's ass already.
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"It bit me in the bum"
by Mimilly inposted at 3:06 am edt friday, september 6. .
you reap what you sow.
canadian press.
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LovesDubs
roflroflroflrofl!! What an image that plays in my head ...watchtowers flyin everywhere, polyester Little House on the Prairie dress getting ripped to shreads. Im sorry she got bit and hurt like that, but dang girl...WHAT were you thinking?? I never went into anybodys BACK yard if they didnt answer the door unless I SAW them standing there.
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Barely hanging on
by joelbear ini am just barely hanging on to my sanity again.
going through one of my terrible.
panicky periods.
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LovesDubs
Hang in there honey...we love you.
Until something better comes along, you can hold my bear :)
Edited by - LovesDubs on 6 September 2002 9:59:31
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I was ripped off!
by joannadandy inso the new semester has begun.
that was sarcasm by the way.
as some of you may or may not know, i am going to be a teacher(someday if i ever graduate).
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LovesDubs
Tell her you were flattered that she decided to use YOUR worksheet, but would she please mind giving you a BY line next time she uses it? That way she will know that you know...and she should be damn embarrassed by what she did.
And yes you are brilliant...dont let somebody else steal the show.
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Gradations of Deadness
by Satanus inaccording to wt there are many different levels of deadness.. 1. second death - about as dead as you can get.
2. first death - as dead as the second one, except that their god has remembered you.
3. the walking dead - that's all the nondub people walking around dead, but they don't know it.
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LovesDubs
Princess Bride :)
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I HAVE CANCER
by Mary ini found out the other day that i have endometrial cancer.
needless to say, i'm shocked, angry and desperate.
i blame this on my incompetent doctor who did absolutely nothing when i first went to him two years ago and said "there's something wrong here.
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LovesDubs
I just had a total hysterectomy in June of this year my friend. Everything went. I was GREATLY helped and informed by this site: The people there are fantastic.!
http://www.hystersisters.com/ Better you be alive tho if having the operation will get rid of the cancer. They will have to probably test the lymph nodes around the uterus to see if it has spread. You need to know for sure.
http://aolsvc.health.webmd.aol.com/content/article/1680.50786?SRC=aolsearch&KW=endometrial_cancer