This DVD is not representative of all JW family's!
That's true, which is a problem for them. Why do you think they released it?
After watching for the second time I released it has a two fold effect.
First, the fear and guilt associated with making god sad controls you now. But second, the constant disappointment of having anything or anyone you actually liked taken away from you sets you up to be ready for the disappointment of the ever changing date of Armageddon.