For those of you in other countries, the U.S. Army ran quite a few years worth of TV/poster ad's with the slogan 'Be All That You can Be'.
Actually, it could be a good deal. They would give you a sporting chance of getting a good MOS (Military Occupational Specialty), where you might get some decent training.
You could get shot, of course. Yeah, OK, so the Recruiter didn't live up to his promises, either.
So, get out and take them up on the G.I. Bill for school. And if you did a 2nd hitch, they pretty much had to do some of it your way, plus pay a re-enlistment bonus, plus school afterwards.
While not recommending the Army, you have to notice that they got one thing right: do the best you can for yourself and you will do other things better, too. They learned to dish out the incentives.
I think that I remember hearing Knorr espouse the virtue's of being a short-order cook. That was in Yankee Stadium, sometime in the 50's/early 60's.
Note that you couldn't go for the max and be a REAL CHEF. You had to settle for second best. Its always 2nd best (or worse) with these ad-visors. There is always this mistrust or jealousy of your making some decision for yourself.
Well, the whole thing is a false economy. Here is the poor, under-skilled brother slaving long hours, maybe including a second job. So, he probably does everything half-rate: family, job1, job2 and JW duties.
There is also the fear of a person becoming prideful in their making achievements and headway as an individual.
The real truth is that the pressures of living always become JOB#1, no matter what. If the individual is prepared to do the best they can, and develop as an individual, a better class of drone may follow. Balance could be stressed to round out the package.
All-in-all, instead of a well-rounded individual (who might be better at the ministry) you end up with the cheaply packaged product of a scrooge or skinflint.
Mustang