Posts by Naeblis

Freefallin, I have found in the past (especially here) that many of our experiences are so closely tied that when a person reads about someone else musing to themselves about going back that it creates almsot a panic within themselves. I think many of us have sometimes briefly wondered to ourselves whether we could just swallow what we know and return to somewhere where it might be a bit easier. I think most of us in the end reject that, so when we see someone wondering the same things we go off a bit. I'm sure noone meant anything if they were a bit overzealous.

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open marriages, anyone have experience?

by Pierced Angel in

well, my husband found out about my affair (yes, i gave in to the temptation with the soccer player and while it was fantastic, it's over now) and it's been a devestating time, we almost got divorced, but we're working through it.

i knew telling friends and this board wasn't going to help me fight his romantic advances, but i tried.

it was a one time thing that would have continued, but i wasn't too careful about the clues (guilty conscience i think).

Naeblis

Actually Englishbloke, lots of people have happy marriages and relationships that are open. I think you're generalizing a bit. Just because you can't have an open relationship doesn't mean that noone else can. Personally, I don't think I could do it. Not with anybody that I really cared about anyways.

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open marriages, anyone have experience?

by Pierced Angel in

well, my husband found out about my affair (yes, i gave in to the temptation with the soccer player and while it was fantastic, it's over now) and it's been a devestating time, we almost got divorced, but we're working through it.

i knew telling friends and this board wasn't going to help me fight his romantic advances, but i tried.

it was a one time thing that would have continued, but i wasn't too careful about the clues (guilty conscience i think).