Wednesday,
The JWs are no better and no worse than many other groups - you have to remember that they are human led, and humans ALWAYS do the same things to one another - power hungry people find a way to use a system to control other people. That has always been true, and doesn't seem to be changing. That is actually a truth that the JWs don't want you to discover, that they are the sme as everyone else. It exposes the man behind the curtain as it were. As to the line "Well where are you supposed to go?" that is a question that cannot be answered. Because there is no place to go if you are looking for the solutions to all of life's problems neatly wrapped in a package for you. It doesn't exist.
Given the chance, men in power will use religion (and gov't) to control and obtain money from the masses. It doesn't matter the label you put on it, christain, muslem, hindu, whatever, it's all the same result wrapped in a different package.
You have to determine YOU OWN thoughts on what you think is god/spirituality/etc. Until (if and when) Sky-Daddy decides to make his/her presence known in some manner, the is no single human on this planet that can claim to represent/define/channel god to others. Anything else is BS created by a human with an agenda.