... are you telling me that we shouldn't disfellowship pedophiles, unrepentant adulterers or willful thieves? I consider it completely just that a pedophile is removed from the congregation. And yes that person has 'reaped what they sowed'.
You're being deliberately obtuse....I don't give a crap if my sister screws up her marriage. People do stuff like that, some more than others. She is always welcome at my house.
And if someone has a personality or behavior so unpleasant I don't wish to be around them, it's up to me to decide how to deal with it.
Churches have every right to determine who is a member of their club. They don't have a right to decide for me how I interact with them on a personal basis. That is what labels the JWs a high control sect or cult.
Your use of the term, 'unrepentant' suggests your heart is still, after all these years, sold on the idea of judging others in personal matters. My life, and mine only, is for me to direct, not that of others.