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  What's Your Opinion of the Opposite Sex?

  by minimus in

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  are you of the mind that all men and all women are basically the same?

  you know---all men just have one thing on their mind or all women are just users?

  there's so much stereotyping when it comes to males and females...typical man, typical woman.

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  Personally, I'm tired of proving what I am - I am a woman. I have the ability to take care of myself and my young alone if needed. I can hang drywall, do small engine repairs, cook dinner, work a full time job & still have an abundance of energy for my children. I don''t need a man to take care of me, and for 7 years I did just that - took care of myself.

  But, I also appreciate the fact that men are what they are. We are perfect compliments (usually) one to the other - if we just accept & appreciate the differences. I appreciate that men arent typically as "sensitive or emotional as I am - I need to be brought back to reality every once in awhile, and I'm not ashamed to say it. I like the feeling of the strong sense of security my hubby brings to me, and I'm not ashamed of that either. Sure, some of his typical maleness bothers me on occassion, but sh*t - he has to deal with me! Turnabout's fair play.

  I can be strong when I have to be - but its nice to know that I don't always have to be. My hubby is to an extent the"head of the household"', and I'm not ashamed of that either, because he doesnt behave as lord and master.
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  HURRICANE to hit NOVA SCOTIA today..are you READY?

  by Special K in

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  i'm getting hit .. today.. with hurricane juan.. it will strike metro halifax between 6 and 9 pm this evening.

  winds 90 to 140 km/hour... up to 80 millimetres of rain.

  "this is the worst case scenario for halifax... we are right on the hit list"..says forcasters.

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  Glad to hear everyone's present & accounted for (including your kitties Shera).....
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  the elders may be gone but soon i will be alone

  by the mole in

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  2. beliefs

  the word has spread to my family that i questioned my sister and the elders came to my home..several of my aunts had called already and my one uncle from georgtown ca....they being so very concerned on my spirtitual wellbeing have forgotten that i have questions on why the organization does what it does.

  i finally confessed to my uncle sam that last year another m.s approached me and told me his crimes against a new sister's child while he watched them one night when she was at a get together with other brothers and sisters.

  i cringed at what my uncle has said but to argue with him would have been a brick wall.

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  (((Mole))) - you are not alone - we're all here for ya!
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  See everyone around....

  by obiwan in

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  see ya'll.

  i'll pop in from time to time.

  big hugs to my peeps.. .

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  Love ya Obi - see ya on the flip side!
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  For Canada: ONTARIO VOTES

  by RAYZORBLADE in

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  2. current

  ok folks, if you live in the province of ontario, it should come as no surprise to you: we have a provincial election going on, and a very important one too.

  thursday, october 2, 2003 is our provincial election.

  here's some information that may be useful: .

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  Good luck guys!
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  tink's first major break-up

  by tinkerbell82 in

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  i'm officially single.

  i don't know how to feel exactly.

  thank you to everyone who has been so sweet and kind and supportive of me, you have no idea how much it's meant to me.

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  (((Tink)))

  As someone said, when one door closes, another opens.

  Hope ya feel better soon!
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  the elders left but tinkerbell stayed

  by the mole in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  ***the mole*** a response from comments to my sister on abuse.

  several elders showed up to my house last weekend and i had no clue that strong resentment was brewing.

  only several weeks has past now and i find myself in a midst of a storm.

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  ((((themole)))) I'm sorry you had to be so severely punished for doing the right thing. Hang in there!
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  The $#!+ has hit the fan...

  by Badger in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  ok, i've been on here for a week now, so i should start a thread...'bout time... .

  this kind of stems from the problem that set my doubt blender on puree to begin with.

  about nine months ago, my wife (who i was separated from for two years) confessed to sleeping around.

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  No one else matters but that little boy - put his needs first & the path should fall right into place. Nope, its not easy - but YOU are the father here, and everyone else's "'opinions" hold no weight.
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  The $#!+ has hit the fan...

  by Badger in

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  ok, i've been on here for a week now, so i should start a thread...'bout time... .

  this kind of stems from the problem that set my doubt blender on puree to begin with.

  about nine months ago, my wife (who i was separated from for two years) confessed to sleeping around.

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  As you've said, the most important person in this entire situation is your son - his well-being, his happiness & his being well-adjusted to his environment. I'm sorry, but it doesn't sound as if your ex is equipped to figure out what is best for her child, especially if she is putting her emotional needs before those of her son (which she is if she's "kicking out & letting back in"). She's not even married to this guy, and this is not a stable environment for a child.

  I say stick with the custody & do what you as the father know is right for that boy - sounds like you're the only one willing to do so.

  Good luck!
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  HURRICANE to hit NOVA SCOTIA today..are you READY?

  by Special K in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i'm getting hit .. today.. with hurricane juan.. it will strike metro halifax between 6 and 9 pm this evening.

  winds 90 to 140 km/hour... up to 80 millimetres of rain.

  "this is the worst case scenario for halifax... we are right on the hit list"..says forcasters.

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  Talesin & Shera - report in asap - worried about you guys!!!!