"how are you going to feel during Armageddon when you make it and your spouse dies right before your eyes"
I have never heard that outside of perhaps joking around. It just goes to prove how inconsistent the religion is with regard to how and what various congregations believe and are taught, off the record. The wts wants us to believe ALL jws think alike and are in sink with each other all around the world, even though they aren’t even on the same page in the same country. The practice of shunning isn’t even consistent everywhere. Some shun beyond the point of absolute stupidity and others practice no shunning at all.